can you be friends with the opposite sex

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Originally Posted by friendowl

maybe your right

its just that it always turns out that we'll be kickin it
and then it comes out like this

girl; " owl, i wish my man was like you"
"i can just talk and you listen so well"
" what do you think of me"
" if i was your hyna would you do that to me"

me; " girl let me tell you i aint mr.right"
" im mr.right now"
[leans in for a kiss and puts hand under shirt in same motion]

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haha, i hate when that happens.

O ya i got friends who are chicks, but its not like im in the friend spot, cuz i still hit on em and cop a feel whenever i can just to show Im not JUST a friend.

I think you can be friends with a member of the opposite sex but you cannot be best friends. If you are best friends with someone of the opposite sex one of you will end up falling for the other. And may get hurt.

lol.... 'grats on the feel copping

Have you heard Chris Rocks explanation on this..
IT is brilliant....

I have lots of friends that are woman, and don't even feel the least bit attracted to them. Friends are friends man no matter what sex they are.

Although, I hate feeling like a big brother to some of them./shrug

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Originally Posted by duckfool

perhaps your just a slut? :p

Really though, i think it depends on the type of guy you are. If your the stereotypical "manly man" who spends every moment of thier waking day trying to prove to his buddies that he's tougher than them, etc, then you probably cant have a legitimate female friend, no. This is of course a very general stereotype I'm making, but it usually holds true as this stereotype usually consist of the type who objectifies girls.

If, on the other hand, your someone who just simlply enjoys interacting with other people and having reliable, good friends, then it is indeed perfectly possible.

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Totally.

Ive slept with most of my female friends. Nothing changes, in most cases we just both feel like gettin laid.... I dont mind it one bit

most of the peeps in my circle are girls.

I find it hard to make friends with females so most of my friends are males and that's as far as it will ever go.I don't fancy them and I also know it would ruin a good friendship.