still a fucked up situation though... good luck man
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still a fucked up situation though... good luck man
man that suck! well she fucked with you by telling people something that wasnt her business so maybe you should do the same! tell people one of her secrets like the noises she makes in bed or somthing about her that she doesnt like. paybacks a bitch! or you could make something up! say she has HERPES:D or her poonanny stinks!
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Originally Posted by pixel
Dude, dont be a homophobe.:mad:
Choice of living a lie or just being honest with yourself and others, I can handle anyones BS as long as I know I'm being true to myself.Quote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
Walk away and don't bother with petty payback that way at least you can hold your head high,learn to be honest or learn to hide it better the choice is yours.
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Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
relationships are about give and take, compromise and so on. each side is goign to have to give a little. there are two factors that could totally mess up anything i'm saying so if the answer to "have she quit anything drastic for you" or there are other things she'd rather me quit, but the argument always seems to come back to me and my weed" then this does not apply to youQuote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
relationships are based on give and take as already stated. therefore, no one in any relationship should be able to make a decision about what the other is going to do..
some scenarios
she doesn't want you smoking it, cuz it's a "drug" well, so are the pills that pharmautical buisnesses hand out, there's no real diffrence there.
she doesn't you smoking it cuz it can cause cancer/illnesses, technically you have way more ways to die then smoking weed... i'd be willing to bet you'd get hit bya drunk and die before you'd die over anything weed related. then there's alway sif you just do it to much for her, don't do it so much, if you she wants you to quit just cuz she don't like it, reason with her, make her give up (or lower the intake) of something you dislike she does, and in turn you cut down some of your smoking habbits... no relationship ever will 100% agree with the other person, that's why we need compromises
Yeh but the kid goes to school man, who gives a fuck if he's proud about it or not? like ONE adolescent is gonna change the outlook of the world on marijuana consumption. Fact is ppl (kids no less, and av u spoke to the majority of em....fuuuuuuuck me, like talkin to a brick wall) will be raggin on him all the time, and yeh u can walk away, but u got to go to lessons with these ppl aswell, so the walking away thing doesn't really work, cuz sooner or later you will have to deal with them, and if u hav the attitude toward them of 'Fuck ya, I'll do what I want' they could (unlikely, but still), not only tell the school u smoke, but tell em u deal, since ure mates seem to look down on drugs anyway, uve been lowered to the rank of 'Junkie trainee'......a girl I was friends with at school got thrown the fuck out becuz sum bitch went runnin to the teachers on her (and she was jus smoking, not dealin), so yeh u won't go to jail, but a lot of hassle could be caused, and maybe he just wants to keep his head down and get thru school with as little trouble as possible, I kno I did, what a bag of shit those yrs were.
And yeh ure right man, she sounds like an AAAAAAAAACE girlfriend, sure were lucky to cross paths with her :thumbsup:
um the whole point is that SHE was sayin that, not me!!! :rasta:Quote:
Originally Posted by ethsfreshman
you're missing the point... it's not to change the outlook on marijuana, i just think that when you use marijuana and you enjoy it, it seems cowardly to start lying about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jimmicrackedcorn
the attitude is not at ALL "fuck you i do what i want" the attitude is "i smoke marijuana, but that doesn't make me less of a person. if you think it does, and you have some prejudice against it, then this friendship, relationship, whatever it is, can't continue." if you go to these people with a bad attitude, it'll give them a bad attitude towards you. be positive, when someone sees you being open and honest about yourself while still being kind, i bet you that you'll strike a pleasant chord in them and they'll see you not as just a marijuana smoker but as a pretty good guy too.
i know that you're in school, maybe even surrounded by brainwashed drug war victims, but a wise man once said "You must be the change you wish to see in the world."
I kno what ure saying man, it is cowardly to lie about it, but for you to be bothered by this, you must give in to the weakness that makes you a coward in the first place, the opinions of others. Whether you shout it from the rooftops, or keep it in secret, the action speaks louder than the words ever could.
And the attitude of "i smoke marijuana, but that doesn't make me less of a person. if you think it does, and you have some prejudice against it, then this friendship, relationship, whatever it is, can't continue." is a long way of saying 'Fuck ya, I'll do what I want' You smoke weed, which is what you want to do, and if others don't like it, you can't be around them, in a harsher sense, but the same general message fuck ya!
As for Ghandi, I think it was amazing what he did, he had as much balls as a fucking barbarian, but even tho his principles were firmly built on non-violent methods, his oppressors weren't, and in the 20 or so years it took for him to gain the independence of India, hundreds of thousands of protestors were either shot/imprisoned/beaten, including himself many times. Plus when the independence was finally gained, it was just after the first world war, when britain was economically butt fucked, but that still didn't stop them from tryin to split India up in to smaller states, with the 1946 cabinet mission to India, which in a way they succeeded in doing, political unrest was invoked in the indian parliament between the different religious groups, ending in turmoil, but on his last fast to death for peace between Hindu, Sikh and Muslim groups, they agreed they would advocate peace............little over a year later Ghandi was assasinated by a Hindu extremist, with the group Mahasabha, who blamed Gandi for weakenin india by paying Pakistan to avoid war, and these religious groups and many more are still having a pissing contest with one another.
So you can hav as positive attitude as you want, but ppl will ALWAYS try and fuck you over and call you a prick for what you do, the best thing is to do what Gandi did once a day every week, and be silent, unless you want to really go balls out on it, and in this case I don't think its worth it to slpntrx5, cuz he'll eventually leave school, and never see 80-95% of those pricks again.