loneliness-good or bad

I prefer playing around, man. Relationships suck as far as I'm concerned. I hate being tied down, feeling like a have to answer to someone, ya know? Six years in a bad marriage got to me. ;)

Single life rules, at least until I get old and gray.

(Whoot, whoot!)

the thing is that you can never hide from yourself because everywhere you go there you are.

i used to be highly active when it came to freaking the ladies.
i would especially like to fuck the ones who were married or had boyfriends.
some of these ladies were down right dirty.
like they would hide me outside till the husband left for work at 3 in the morning and then come in too fuck on her bed.
or girls straight introducing me as their friend owl and then when the boyz trust me and left us alone wed fuck right under his nose.
girls are very sneaky and when they have a guy who luvs em they get very manipulative.they want cake and ice cream and they want to eat it to.

I prefer to have a partner to share the moments with but it has to be the right partner.

I got married when I was way too young and spent 4 years in a marraige that never should have been in the first place. We spent so little time together that I might as well have been alone. Fortunately we were smart enough not too have any kids.

I have been with my current wife for 10 years now and wouldn't want it any other way. Not to be sappy but it really was one of those love at first sight things and we knew we'd be together for the rest of our lives within a few weeks of first meeting each other. Sometimes it just works.

That being said, I do still like spending time alone every now and then. Either with my friends or just being myself. Sometimes you need to be apart in order to really appreciate each other when you're back together.

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Originally Posted by friendowl

the thing is that you can never hide from yourself because everywhere you go there you are.

i used to be highly active when it came to freaking the ladies.
i would especially like to fuck the ones who were married or had boyfriends.
some of these ladies were down right dirty.
like they would hide me outside till the husband left for work at 3 in the morning and then come in too fuck on her bed.
or girls straight introducing me as their friend owl and then when the boyz trust me and left us alone wed fuck right under his nose.
girls are very sneaky and when they have a guy who luvs em they get very manipulative.they want cake and ice cream and they want to eat it to.

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That's not true about all women friendowl...don't know what kind of women you were with but IMO cheating and betraying trust is not good from either partner..just my opinion. I never was in relationships much though..actually I was married young....divorced of course...then later in life remarried..maybe I need to get out more but I always enjoyed being with just 1 man...I would never betray my husbands trust..NEVER. Not judging anyone I just don't think it's a good thing to betray someone you say you love...but I WAS raised old school and thats just me.

i think its just the city i live.
when i traveled out of here
like to wisconsin or virginia
or anywhere but herte i found the girls to be sweet and caring and fun.
i know its just this place so ill wait for my oppurtunity.
i am a bad boy so i gravitated towards the bad ladies
but know i want someone with class and is sweet at heart.

Sometimes a change of scenery is exactly what's needed. I always dated the same kind of woman, all unsuccessfully. Then I just happened to meet this sweet young college professor while I was living in China. We just clicked and the rest is history.

chinesse girls are hot
their skin is so soft and smooth
except real chinesse got no bootie or titties.
i guess they make a lot of money so they can just buy an ass and chest
it all seems to balance out cool

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Originally Posted by friendowl

i am trying to figure out the best way to remain happy
is it better to be alone and live the way you choose.
or
is it better to have a partner to share the moments with.

its tricky cuz when your with someone you feel more lonlely than when your alone.

ive been in a relationship going on five years and i dont really enjoy myself as mucjh as i do when im alone.

do any of you feel trapped between feelings like me or what

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cant answer that myself dude, cuz i aint been in a lot of real serious long term relationships, but when i find out i'll let ya know :thumbsup:

Peace :rasta:

oh wesley you havnt truly lived till you get your heartbroke
i would hate to be around when it happens.
your gonna turn from a tough cookie to a bannana peel in the dirt

My friends have an open relationship and have a kid together, its bizzare in my eyes, I just cant see that man. If I was ever in that kind of relationship i'd be jealous as crap, and im not normally a jealous type person but knowing your girl or whatever is sleeping with some dude or multiple dudes would just really get to me, I dont ever want to sleep with other girls when im in a relationship...


But friendowl, I'm currently single and loving it not even trying to 'hook up' with girls either, and i kinda know what you meant. I broke up with my last girlfriend while I was still in love with her, I just really didnt feel like being in a relationship anymore I felt a little constricted and obligated to do things. I really enjoyed doing things with her and all but its just not the same as being single i guess. Mabye im just not ready for that serious of a relationship (we were practically living together) mabye you arnt either?