how many of you have children

its like this.
the pictures were taken by a female writer who was writing about life in the los.
they are from a book and to be honest i am in one of the photos.
i never even knew about this till one of my homies girls seen us and showed us.i was looking for pictures of east la to show and i luckily came across them i was so excited cuz im a lil famous.
also that kid from american me that at the end says fuck it homes the primera lives that kid lives down the street.and he aint a kid no more.
also oscar de la hoya came to give a speech about coming from the hood and he got milk cartons thrown at him

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Originally Posted by friendowl

its like this.
the pictures were taken by a female writer who was writing about life in the los.
they are from a book and to be honest i am in one of the photos.
i never even knew about this till one of my homies girls seen us and showed us.i was looking for pictures of east la to show and i luckily came across them i was so excited cuz im a lil famous.
also that kid from american me that at the end says fuck it homes the primera lives that kid lives down the street.and he aint a kid no more.
also oscar de la hoya came to give a speech about coming from the hood and he got milk cartons thrown at him

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LOL Haha!!!! :D:D

Milk cartons lol... should have filled them with molten lead the night before though haha!!! :D

lol.

I have 1 kid hes 3 but he goes back and forth from my house and my ex fiances house so i only have him like 20 percent of the time

6 kids :dance:

I have one beautiful daughter. I was a single parent (my choice her father turned into an ass thanks to meth). There were bad times, scary times, and plenty of good times. Having her turned out to be the best thing that ever could have happened in my life at that time. Forced me to grow up and get my act together.:) :dance: :stoned:

i have two children. a boy and a girl. my son will be 4 in two months. my daughter is 2. i was married for a few years. now i'm 23 and while i DO regret wasting so much time with the mother of my children (it turned out really bad), i NEVER regret my children. like friendowl said, they make you think about things alot more. you have to grow up really fast, so you can be there to take care of them, and make sure nothing happens to them. i love my kids to death, and i don't know what i'd do if they weren't here.
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Originally Posted by friendowl

let me tell you from first hand knowledge.
from a mans point of view having a daughter made me realize that all my life ive been an asshole.
having to care for a lil baby girl is far different from raising a boy.
lil girls are made for there daddies.so precious.she will never be without me till i die

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A candidate for best post EVER on cannabis.com I think.

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Originally Posted by friendowl

let me tell you from first hand knowledge.
from a mans point of view having a daughter made me realize that all my life ive been an asshole.
having to care for a lil baby girl is far different from raising a boy.
lil girls are made for there daddies.so precious.she will never be without me till i die

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Man I hear ya:thumbsup: I've got a two year old little girl and she's the absolute treasure of my life. When I come home she comes running yelling "Daddy, Daddy" and jumps into my arms. There is nothing, absolutely nothing, on this planet that is better than that.

She's my only child and I doubt we'll have any more. My wife and I are both in our mid 30's and waited 6 years after we were married to have a child. We just figured we needed time to be together first. When we decided to have a child, however, we definitely wanted one. Our first attempt resulted in a miscarraige which was really hard on both of us but I think it just makes our daughter all the more precious. Am I a good father? I like to think I am. I certainly try to be. Being a parent is an art though, and I don't think anyone has perfected it. All parents make mistakes, good parents learn from them.

I don't have children. I hope to have some though someday. Not with some random bar trash, but I have been keeping sights on someone I can spend the rest of my life with, and raise a family. As for right now though, kids wouldn't be a good idea. I'm just not ready for any yet, but in the future, oh yes. :thumbsup:

I have three boys - now grown. My wife was a great mother - I was an indifferent father. I started way too young - felt overwhelmed and trapped. But despite all that they turned out great and we are close. There is a lot luck in bringing up kids. No one has the manual. There is no garauntee that you and your kids will be compatible. A lot of things are out of your control and you just have to hope for the best - which doesnt always happen

I have a sister who has cut off all contact with her family - none of us knows why. I dont much care but it tears my parents up no end. I would feel the same.

One thing about being a man and having kids. Kids make you vulnerable emotionally and physically in a way that one isnt used to. Men like to feel that they can take care of themselves and suddenly there is this little child and every time he get sick or gets hurt it wounds your heart. It never goes away - you are always going to be attached to them and share their joy and pain. It's great but its hard to be a tough guy :)