thanx man...you are totally right...cuz i've been hurt and hurt and hurt in the past cuz she keeps runnin back to this ass...if that's what she wants than that's what she wants...i'll find a different chick who likes me for me.
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thanx man...you are totally right...cuz i've been hurt and hurt and hurt in the past cuz she keeps runnin back to this ass...if that's what she wants than that's what she wants...i'll find a different chick who likes me for me.
thats my man :thumbsup: , wise man once said, "Love is the most sought after treasure, but is hardest to find", but never give up hope, i havent :thumbsup: :rasta: :rasta: :rasta:Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
Peace and Love, instead of War and Hate :thumbsup: :rasta:
I think a guy can be a gentle-MAN and still copy the badboy antics without risk of going to prison.
You dont play her game number one.
Its a fact women will sleep with guys that outgame them. Give them what they say they want and they loose interest, (her game and her tests).
Being committment minded is not emotionally challenging, being an emotional challenge is what women want.
Too many guys pour it on thick in the beggining by sharing their feelings a.k.a "spilling their guts", "laying the cards on the table", "wearing your heart on the sleave" and it all has the same result.........It turns women off.
Always keep them wondering where they stand with you.
This all has to do with your most important value, your SEXUAL VALUE.
Your lack of availability, being an emotional challenge, being confident, respect of yourself, unpredictable, nonchaulant. These are important traits to have to attract women and keep them attracted to you.
Listen guys.
When it comes to sex this is very important.
The wrong path to sex> You initiate 70-100% of the time. You just lowered your sexual value by assuming the belief that women give men sex. This throws things out of balance.
The right path to sex>
You transform yourself internally>
you eliminate anti-seduction behavior>
you increase your sexual value>
you build sexual tension>
you challenge her by holding back to the point where she initiates sex, and I mean when she is kissing your neck and grabbing your crotch, in other words she has to complete the process.
Teasing, Challenging and holding back is important. Tension is something that has to happen with women and it has to build first.
Many times women create an argument subconsciously to build this tension. It has no logical purpose and the has nothing really to do with whats being argued about. This tension builds and at one point it will balance itself. In this case make up sex. There are many forms of sexual tension.
Basic law:
Men are turned on by what they see.
Women are turned on by how you make them FEEL and how they see you, (your sexual value).
Not so well known by men nor do they understand how to do these things.
More later.
When you approach women with a thought in your mind that you want sex, her radar picks up on this and this is why men get turned down for sex.
im curious as to why u keep talking about sex, i never mentioned sex, nor did tschmidty32, we were talkin about love and feelings, its not all about sex you know, and what ur describing basically sounds like " i like her but i'll pretend not to", this is the kind of thing ppl do in primary school (juniour high for all u non-uk peeps), i would like some females opinions on this plz!!
and to tschmidty, if this guy is playin both of your female friends, then u should tell them what he's upto, as a friend, if they dont believe u then they dont deserve to have u as a friend let alone a b/f.
I dont agree Wes
Well i have loads of female freinds and yeah sometime it is a bit rough when they go on about there b/f's and such........but they are there for you as well and they are always a little better at talking bout emotions than most blokes.........even with those that weren't interested i me/or iwwas interested in were succesful friendships. I fact i would go so far as to say most of my closest freinds have been women.......
Once you realise that when it comes down to it there is not much of a diff and start treating women as the human beings they are then you will able to be freinds. Maybe even more
But if you cant handle how you feel towards stay away from her and your not headstrong/mature enough to deal with it......you'll just hurt yourself.
And GS thats just BS everybody is different
Women usualy(so they have told me)like to be talked just as human beings not just potential love/lust objects
i hear ya on this drink man, i totally get your point, but having experienced this myself as well, i agree with u on most points except one, if u spend a lot of time around someone u may start to develop "more than friendship" feelings, this (i know) cannot be helped, and u can either choose to tell her how u feel and know for sure if anything will ever happen, or u can suffer in silence, im not saying u should be friends with a girl first just so u can try it on l8er, quite the opposite infact, but sometimes u can't help how you feel towards someone, love can grow with time, and seeing her everyday knowing that she wont return those feelings can hurt.Quote:
Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep
Peace:thumbsup:
Drinking, alone, will not help you. If anything, it will make you more depressed.Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
My advice, get over this girl and find someone who will love you and only you. Then show her you don't need her stanky ass anymore. Make her feel about an 1inch tall, like she did you, and laugh in her face about it. Show her that you've moved on in life because there is one thing women love, and that's being in control. They LOVE it when they have 2 guys wrapped around their fingers. It gives them a sense of power. So I say, don't keep giving her that power because she'll just keep burning you.
Good luck.
yo,, whos that song by??,,, yo i got the same problem man, ive liked this girl but she cant get over her ex and he cheats on her but she doesnt wanna believe it,, and all of my freinds said they know i would treat her better but i donnno,, yo i got to know who dioes that song,, i hadv it on my comp, a also hav 6000 other songs and dont wanna listen to everysingle one of themQuote:
Originally Posted by Pete Rock
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Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex
You guys need to listen to my man right here. This is how it is. I used to be a very nice guy when it came to females, thinking that compliments and constant praising and never questioning them would work when all it does is put you in the friend zone permanently. Its all about being cocky. You gotta know your the shit, and put them in their place. Make fun of and tease them, and only be "nice" occasionally. This will always keep them guessing and they'll never be able to take their mind off you. Don't ever try to make a girl like you by being nice to them.
yeah ok so all that fake bullshit works if u want sex, but read the rest of the posts dude, were not talkin about sex, were talkin about love and how it feels to be around someone that u cant be with (and i dont mean sexually), theres more to life (and relationships) than sex,... its crap like that that give us decent blokes a bad name, some of us aint just out to sleep with as many women as possible, i'd rather make love than have sex, but maybe thats just me, and if thats not good enough for anyone reading this then, i don't really give a shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pete Rock
Peace :rasta: