i posted this in the SEXUALITY boards but no one responded so just read this

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

well im a virgin so thats not the problem. it was my first attempt

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well that was probably it. Or you could have just been too tired. If you have time to plan ahead, take a nap, pop some vitamins, drink a bunch of water and have fun :D

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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Its all nerves just relax and don't think of it, just go with the flow. The more ya think about it, the more likely you will go limp, just view it as the most naturual thing possible.

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Originally Posted by activedenial

It's happened to me as well. But when it happened to me I was drunk as fuck so that was the reason. Maybe your bored with her!! Try bangin a new chick, that will get you up again!:D

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Beer dick is the worst :D

You're just nervous man, I bet I'm correct in saying you two haven't been together for very long? Plus the fact that she's the hottest girl you know can't help the nervousness much...don't worry, it probably won't even happen again, but if it does, it's just a matter of time...you just need to get comfortable around her :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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Relax. This happened to me, too. It was the third fuck of the night and I was just dead in the pants. Anyway, it happened the next time too, and the only way to stop it is to forget it. That's the only solution that works.

Appreciate it while its there. Dont worry about anything. Just think "wow, this girl who wants to fuck me" and you'll be fine.

Man, I vaguely remember my first time, and it literally took soooo long to get it up it almost didn't happen. It's just one of those things that you build up in your mind and when it happens it's so surreal that it takes time for your body and mind to sync up. I say mess around with your girl until you're about ready to pop, then take it to the bedroom. But yeah, you're not alone, and once that first time is passed, you'll be a sex machine.

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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nah don't worry about it, i have that same shit happens sometimes... it can be for any number of reason tho... stress, alcohol/weed/other drugs, not into it, not attracted to her... and the list goes on and oooooooooooon...

more direct to the point...
do you like the chick?
do you find her attractive?
are you new to the sex scene? doesn't nessicarily mean you're a complete virgin.
were you stressed at the time?
were you nervous? (if so was it becasue you didn't want to be embarrased or some other reason.)
were you on any mind-altering substances? (anything from alcohol to hardcore drugs)

wait i missed the post were you said you were a virgin and tha'ts it... cuz it' happened to me when i lost my virginity too... i really liked the girl, thought she was hot as hell... then we were sitting on my bed and she just lunges forward and starts making out with me and one thing leads to another, next th ing i know i can't keep it up, she starts sucking like hell doing EVERYTHING but once it was gone, it was just plain gone.

its all mental

ok guys well she came over tonight i just got back from walkin her home. i just fucked her in my bed. lol i feel so much better now. we were goin for a long time for that bein my first time tho id say about 30-45 minutes