Help with parents

well bud, if u listenin 2 wut i said at all, ud realize that i wuz talkin bout how i GOT my parentz ta become understandin. beleive me, i came along way thinkin theyd never b coo wit it, but now that ive manned up a lil, i can talk 2 em bout it. u obviously dunt kno wut yer talkin bout if yer tellin the kid 2 keep lyin. wut do u think iz gunna do the kid better, bein honest bout it er lyin bout it? i think his parentz wood beat his ass worse if they found out hez lyin 2 em all tha time.

lol howz he gunna keep a secret thatz already gotten out? anywayz i aint gunna sit here n fight wit yah bout wutz best fer him, i gotz my opinion u got yerz.
PeAcE

yea i do get my ass wooped so if i come out straight up they will just beat the shit outta me yea it sucks but o well i guess i will just have to hide it

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Originally Posted by Cronton83

Ok first of all has ur parents ever tried weed when they were younger? Is so they can't say shit. Secondly if u like smokin weed u should do it. Tell ur mom that u do it. But out of respect for her...u won't do it in the house or infront of her. That will break the ice. Then tell her that it doesn't make u a bad person if u do it. See weed has a bad rap. I think of weed like Alcohol. But when ur fucked on weed u can still function. Ur problem should cool down if u are open and honest with ur parents. If they don't then u should probably cut down or just quit weed. I'v always been open and honest with my parents. They know I smoke weed. aslong as it outside they don't care.


Cronton

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Can't say shit? Shit if I was your dad I would beat you upside the head. Their opinion should be more respected because of the fact they done it.

Hey, i got the same problem as buddy here, ive been caught once, my brother got wasted and told them and they asked me if i did and confessed about it, my dad was cool and talked to me about but my mom flipped and started crying that i was gonna be a fuck up like my brothers just cuz i smoke a bit of pot every once in a while, i sitll smoke and im debating with myself if i should come out and be liek listen, i smoke weed sometimes and its not fuckin me up and my grades are fine, i fucked up one term bad in math and got a 55 but since then my math grade has been increasing 5 eveery time and the rest of my grades are mostly 80's

ok guys, I'm glad you asked.... I've been going round and round with this in my head for a couple of weeks... I have a fifteen yr. old daughter and I've always encouraged her to just talk to me before she tries anything (smoking, drinking, sex) out of fear of her getting into something she can't handle. In fact, I'm the one who offered her a puff one night I sensed she was nervous about something major.. So she pretty much tells me all about her evenings with her friends, but I have told her if I feel her grades or ambitions are not up to par she will see the uncool side of me. Kids are gonna do what they gotta do.. on the other hand, if your parents cannot accept it you will not change their minds... some people truly believe pot will screw you up... who knows they my be right.... Some people tell me I am wrong and that I need to set boundries or limits, i do, but i have to be realistic, and it really eases my mind knowing where she is who she's with and what they're up to... they never hesitate to call me if they need a ride or just need me , My daughter knows the one thing that will get her grounded is if she gets in a car with someone that has been drinking or lacking good judgement.... Am I an enabler? some would say yes... Being a parent is a huge responsibility and there are no guaranties on the outcome, just remember most parents love their kids so much that it's a constant struggle hoping they're doing the right thing, but never knowing for sure.
peace,
onehitwonder

the question is, is it worth it?
everyone here has given you good advice, but what matters is what will work for you... just show them you can be a responsible person with your future...
http://boards.cannabis.com/newreply....ote=1&p=27865#
peace,
onehitwonder

lol we werent fightin man, arguein(sp?) but anywayz, eryonez got their oppinion on wut the best thing 2 do iz. i think that weed can fuck yer life up if u let it, juss like anythin else cood. if yer a mature enuff person ta smoke n maintain yer gradez n keep yer life together n wut not, then smokin aint gunna hurt yah. but on the other hand, u got ppl who juss have the mindset that weed cant possibly fuck their life up so they let the weed carry em thru life. i dunno if im makin sense cuz i juss woke up n had a nice wake n bake, but hopefully u get my point
PeAcE

i do understand what your saying but im still not shure what decision im gunna make i mean if i do come out and refer to it like its nothing than i dunno i will still probably get my ass wooped and if i keep it secret and get caught again im gunna get my ass wooped, so i have decided to keep it a secret and not get caught its really the only choice i have cuz i shure as hell dont wanna get my ass wooped and im making no sence sin ce i am so fucked on dxm lol

hahaha...be sure to ditch your dxm bottles/pill packages.