What is a fella to do!????

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Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes

i see what ya mean, i mean the last thing i wanna do is scare her off but i can't help the way i feel, it's not like i can just simply switch off to how i feel... i just don't know what i should do or say that would help.

*Sigh* Why can't life be simple for a change??

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yeah it is rough, i think a lot of people have been in that situation. as hard as it might be, i think you should just keep chatting with her and enjoying yourselves, and maybe add a couple things into the conversation like "oh there's an awesome zoo around here (or whatever she likes) you would love it!" or just make vague statements about the future like "you and i should go to a concert some day" and see how she responds to that. if she seems freaked out then just ease off a bit, but she might be excited that you're bringing it up.

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Originally Posted by kiki

yeah it is rough, i think a lot of people have been in that situation. as hard as it might be, i think you should just keep chatting with her and enjoying yourselves, and maybe add a couple things into the conversation like "oh there's an awesome zoo around here (or whatever she likes) you would love it!" or just make vague statements about the future like "you and i should go to a concert some day" and see how she responds to that. if she seems freaked out then just ease off a bit, but she might be excited that you're bringing it up.

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well she saw that i was listening to yellowcard through MSN and asked if i would be going to any of their concerts but i think it was more of a conversation piece than an invitation, anyway i'm not really workin at the moment so i cant really afford to go to any concerts rigt now, but maybe in the future... we'll see

good luck!! :) :)

btw thx to all the advice and sorry to be layin my probs on u guys/gals but this is the only place i could get unbiased advice from as my m8s would see this as soppy and take the piss.. so Thanks :D

why dont you just tell her you wanna see her and see what happens the worst she can say is hell fuck no.then you can stop wondering if shes the one for you

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Originally Posted by friendowl

why dont you just tell her you wanna see her and see what happens the worst she can say is hell fuck no.then you can stop wondering if shes the one for you

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well for starters even if she said yeah she wanted to see me it could be a while before i would be able to visit her cuz i'm not workin at the moment which means i can't afford to go down and visit, even if i had my own car (which i dont) i would'nt be able to afford petrol, i'm that broke just now, and although it might sound strange, i'd rather enjoy what i have than not have it at all.

Not to burst your bubble, but are you sure she's not some introverted 14 yr old boy who never leaves his computer pretending to be a woman? After all, it's the internet.

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Originally Posted by bonsaiguy

Not to burst your bubble, but are you sure she's not some introverted 14 yr old boy who never leaves his computer pretending to be a woman? After all, it's the internet.

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lol nah man i'm sure, the wonders of webcams

k she said she stayed at a m8s house last night..... a guy m8 :(
should i be worried ??????????????????? :confused: :confused: :(
they didnt get high because he doesnt smoke and it wasn't a party :confused: :(

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Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes

plus she's a stoner as well which is basically just a bonus :D
but i know it's not strictly a sexual thing like it is with most women i have been with, i genuinly like her personality, i mean she's cute, funny, as smart as we stoners get i guess lol, and has a great sense of humour, we also have the same taste in music as well as other things, i just wished we lived closer to each other.

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it's problay some sick dude pretending to be a girl because it turns him on