what do i need?

well if i can have a garden in the back yard, and you dont mind me sleeping inside... lol im well supported :D -_-

dude don't ask if your not willing to try and talk to a girl how are u gunna get one to fuck you?

im willing to, but i cant just go stopping random girls in the street and start hitting on them!


dude!


the problem is getting a chance TO talk to anyone!

and even when the chance is there i find it terribly difficult to follow any conversation, since i cant hear, i ask "what and huh?" too much, and often times people just stop talking to me.

seriousely, i am limited to the internet in meeting girls..



AND IT DOESNT WORK.

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Originally Posted by Stoner Shadow Wolf

expose myself, got it.




im too antisocial, beachguy, due to my hearing loss mostly, to hit on ANYONE... -_- i aint got the balls i guess.


but can you blame me? half of everything that is said to me is garbled speach :(

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Try hooking up with a girl in your area, on the computer. Go to the movies, alone. You have to read lips better, I guess.

I think before anyone else sees something cool in you, you gotta see something cool in you. Sounds cheesy, but when a guy has confidence (not cocky, but comfortable with who he is), it shows and girls are attracted to that. You may find that you want more than just the sex part.

If a man can impress me with intelligence and open-mindedness, I'd hit it.

- Kate

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Originally Posted by Make it Hempen

I think before anyone else sees something cool in you, you gotta see something cool in you. Sounds cheesy, but when a guy has confidence (not cocky, but comfortable with who he is), it shows and girls are attracted to that. You may find that you want more than just the sex part.

If a man can impress me with intelligence and open-mindedness, I'd hit it.

- Kate

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i like to take pride in my openmindedness and somewhat my intelligence, i dont have anything against myself, im perfectly content with who i am, it's just everyone else who seems to have a problem :(

and this is deffenitely not just about sex, i want someone who i can share a good long conversation with, and even just enjoy their prescence, sex is deffenitely wanted, but it's not everything.

Personal want-ads? Somehow get a girl to know that you have a hearing problem.

i think i'll stick with adultfriendfinder.com :D


i keep getting a ton of messages from guys though -_- no girls have been interested yet :(

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the reason for the neccessity of a car and job and whatnot:
if i work, and have a car, and can support myself, i expect a guy that i'm with to do the same. i've been through the whole "boyfriend doesn't have a car" and i was the one who got stuck driving him to work, picking him up, taking him here and there and it was stupid. i'm not materialistic, but then again, i don't wanna pay every single time i go out with my SO. i don't mind going dutch, but i'm not gonna pay your way all the time. basically, if a guy can't support himself, girls usually get the red flag and move on to worthier men.

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so u need a guy with a car?

how stupid

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Originally Posted by Stoner Shadow Wolf

i think i'll stick with adultfriendfinder.com :D


i keep getting a ton of messages from guys

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Maybe, that's the way to go. Test the waters. :stoned: