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She's 4 months next tuesday.Quote:
Originally Posted by dark0ne
I told her about abortion when we found out, which was 3 1/2 months ago and she said..hmm..then now..it's too late and she uses that as an excuse.
She wants me to be with her, I blocked her phone number. I only associate with her through online as of right now. Still deciding on what I want to do.
DNA test is a 100 percent option I'm taking.
Yeah as I was saying
I think you need to have a real long chat with this girl, after all she is going to be a mother and at the very least she needs to know you will be there for her.
Take her out, make her feel good about herself, even though you obviously donâ??t want to be with her anymore, try giving her a little attention so that she doesnâ??t feel like she is going through this on her own, if she feels supported and has someone she can talk to â?? maybe she wont be so hard on herself and stop self harming and start to think about looking after this child.
I take it she has to drop out of school/college now so maybe you could offer to look after the kid part time when its born to give her time to get a decent education and therefore be able to provide her child with what it needs and deserves.
You both need to pull together despite your differences for the sake of your kid
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Originally Posted by SensiRide
Now I don't think staying together for the kids despite our differences is the best option.
I would rather have my kid(s) raised in an environment that is happy and there is less conflict. With her there is just conflict (when we are in a relationship). I still associate with her online and go to doctor visits with her, but that is where is stops. Sorry, but thanks for the advice, it's just..we've talked many times, we've broken up and gotten back together many times. This isn't meant to be and I am not going to post something that needs to be said for the sake if my kid ever reads this haha.
I currently have a g/f who has a kid (she's 22) and right now things are good. I see HER kid often and don't really raise him but I still play with him and a little active in his life. I don't feel the relationship was ever right.
Me and her (my ex) were together for 2 months. I met her the first day and started going out with her, didn't really know who she was. Found out who she was and didn't like it, didn't like it all. Tried to make things work, they just don't work.
No matter what, I'm here for the baby. Not her.
But I'm not going to say that because if I am paying for anything it's for my kid, not her, I won't pay child support to her because I know her habits and she'll blow it on "eyeliner and booze"
No, you misinterpreted, I said pull together not stay together
Anyway, good luck, Iâ??m sure you will be fine :thumbsup:
Oooh okay..pull together. Now that I can do!
Hehe thanks Sensi!
It looks like you let your dick get you in quite a dilemma....
My head just doesn't know how think.
No pun intended.
STDzRus, i kinda know what you're going through. I used to date a girl like that (called Rachel, unfortunately we just liked the look of eachother and starting going out the moment we met. I didnt even know her, lol the week after I met her she was in the nuthouse... again). This girl sounds EXTREMELY unstable, especially as she is carrying a kid at the mo. I don't come onto these boards often - stopped smoking cannabis a few days ago as im on new meds (yes im a nutter aswell lol) but i might buy some later on - anyways going off topic here. I used to cut each day, take ODs etc and even did something that very very nearly put me in a coffin. Cos of that incident, I wont be allowed to own a rifle when im older, and I love shooting (if you still dont know what it is I did, work it out when sober! lol). Anyways, if you need any advice just email me at [email protected] cos Im sure you really dont want this girl topping herself or taking an OD while shes got the kid. I know it may seem selfish, but even if you cant do it after birth, at least keep her happy while shes pregnant so she doesnt do anything to harm the kid (even accidental). Just think of the kid, when the time comes do ya best to make sure it doesnt turn out like her (personality wise, sometimes you just cant help mental disorders as they can be hereditary). Hope everything goes ok dude, send us some pics of the kid when it pops out yer?
=P
Hell yeah pictures are a must!
This is gonna be a cannabis.com baby! haha
For some reason that sounds like I am going to shoot him up with THC but I'm not.
ANd thanks swizzy.
There is a less then 25% chance that the baby will have red hair :p, it's a recesive trait and dark hair is domanant.Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide