I'd ask him, in a very sincere way, "What's the deal with your eyes ?". You might get an honest answer, and then you can explain that you're not quite sure how to look at him. Maybe he can help you.
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I'd ask him, in a very sincere way, "What's the deal with your eyes ?". You might get an honest answer, and then you can explain that you're not quite sure how to look at him. Maybe he can help you.
I agree. I am the type to ask, so I would suggest you ask, respectfully.Quote:
Originally Posted by DonnieDarko
i usually look at the forehead in such cases,the hiarline,and i still wonder if they looking at me when im talking to them,ya cant tell
was a dude like that in school people picking on alot,he was smart friendly guy but still got bothered becuase he literally looked right thru u it seemed, and could bug ya to talk to him for any length of time,
he got slapped alot untill he kicked one dudes ass for it and they stopped .
alot is Judged by the look in your eye
Oreo's AND Lilly's LARGE CHILDISH CURSING SIGS are really juvenile.
if you're going to look at the guys forehead....(LOL).. at least stutter alot or something, so there's a reason for acting like a weirdo. make him think that you're just as 'un-normal' as he is. that way he's not uncomfortable with you looking at his head while you're talking to him. geez, that's got to be one of the most disrespectful things i could think of...staring at his hairline when he's talking to you. lol... and i think you're going to make him uncomfortable no matter how you ask him ''what's the deal with your eyes?" that's just wrong. but yes, watch out for pissing people like that off...this one kid when i went to high school, he wore HUGE coke bottle glasses and was always talking to himself. he would always be in gym trying out wrestling moves on 'invisible people'. this one dude came up to him on the bleachers one day and started talking trash to him.... so he puts the guy in a sleeper hold and wouldn't let go for about 5-10 minutes!!!! this guy was passed out and slobbering all over himself with blood coming out of his ears (the guy in the sleeper hold of course!) .... and the weird guy just dropped him about 5 feet from the bleachers to the hardwood floor on his face. needless to say, nobody messed with him again that year. lol...
if hes cockeyed, I doubt he realizes you have troubles looking at him. Hes probably had this problem his whole life and is used to the way ppl look at him.
Look at is eyes...maybe theyll do trippy shit like drift to different corners of the eye lol.
"yo man, Its all good, ppl look at me weird all the time."
theres a guy like that at my college, i know what you mean its really hard to know where to look but the guys cool so i just talk to him like i would anyone else.
please do not ask what's the deal with your eyes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry
if you simply MUST say something, do it in the most tactful gentle way possible. I have a friend with a scar on his forehead, (looks like he was in a fight or accident) he calls it his intelligence meter. Ignorant people will ask "what the hell happened to you???" right off and stare open mouthed. Seems like the smarter they are, the less likely they are to mention it, or act like there is anything wrong whatsoever according to him. And he is a smart dude so I would vote for the say nothing stare at his nose or look elsewhere camp. Until you know him well enough to be rude.