What should I do to go above and beyond for my girl?

stop loving her your on the train to get your heart broken. But you wont beleive anybody when they tell you this untill it happens. its really quite funny if you ask me.

dude i kno you LIKE the girl a lot...but u dont love her...i mean i dont know ur feelings personally but ive been with a couple diff girls for a month or more and thought i was inlove...i was a teen too, still am(18) but i was 14/15, trust me ur not inlove...good for u tho that u found a girl u really like, it can change into love tho if its real within time.

I was inlove like 4 diffrent times and then i met my girl now and we've been together for 3 years now and i love her i kno i do, Im just saying time will tell if you really love her cause before you kno it the bitch might get to ur brain and get on ur nerves(trust me happened to me a couple times)

o ya and if ur not a teen i apologize just seems like ur jumppin the gun and weed is not a good present ever for a girl if ur trying to impress...bring the weed with u just not to romance her, weed is more the fun thing to do with her

I agree with Oreo - nobody ever thinks about the what is obviously going to happen. "Love" if there is such a thing, does not last. I found a girl I really like too; but in the back of my mind I can't help but think - "fuck, sooner or later it is going to be over."

Yeah, weed is more a recreational activity to do with her.

Tell her nice things, compliment her, be sweet to her, but don't lie. Tell her things you really think, like..... if you look at her and you think she looks pretty, tell her. Being emotionally closed off is a good way to lose your girl.

let me also add, love does last if both of you would like it too. It isn't always easy to love another person, even if you love each other a lot and it takes both of you wanting it for it to work. If you sense something going wrong, don't get all angry and internalize everything...ask her whats up and work on it together.

Yeah I know this isn't going to last forever im not like 10 I'm 17 years old, but I really like her and I have already asked her why she's with me cause im in no way perfect or even close. All she said was that she really really likes me, but that's a pretty generic answer, she also said that she always happy when shes with me which is unusual for her. She also likes to act soo cute around me, she stumbles and falls down alot (like shes drunk but i know shes not cause i be with her all the time) well anyways I dont lose any sleep over this relationship anymore my moto is just to try as hard as i can to make it work out real good and be myself and just love her for what she is, which i do, and then just see what happens. If she just wants to screw around for a while then dump me then i guess thats okay but im not investing too much into this i just like seeing people happy.

Also she likes to talk about her ex alot (in a bad way msot of the time) and i dont really like to hear about her ex. So my question is should I ask her to not talk about him so much or sould I just ask her to tell me everything about him and her so that she can get everything off of her chest?

Ya if she doesnt understand why, then you shouldnt be with her. Never bring up ur exes to the person you are trying to get with. Be nice and kindly explain how u dont aprreciate hearing about her ex, i mean shit if shes with u she shouldnt be thinking about him

Well, find out what she really enjoys doing. Go to a fancy resturant, followed by a walk on a river walk or beach near you. You could always send her flowers to her home/work.

one good tip:

DONT GET HER PREGENANT

and everything is fine

later

i say fuck her! Lol just playing man :D I think its really sweet you wanna do something specail for her but it is really too early in your relationship to show commitment like that. Perhaps you should wait until 4 months have passed to see how things are working out before buying her things. Besides, not all girls want something from a store. Hold her, kiss her, if she wants to fuck look her int he eyes and say something like "Are you sure baby?" and smile. :) Good luck.