Need Advice

i totaly understand my mom had breast cancer her tumer was 6 inches around with an aggeresion of 9 they removed the brest and her lympnodes she went through radition chemo. we were all very sad for her and she was still our back bone she had the most amazing attiude toward her cancer.she was very positive. she did not use any pain meds just weed and she says if it wernt for weed she dosent kno what she would have done.just keep her smileing and thinking positive and dont let her get all stond and sleepy on pain meds caus thats were shell just lie ther and be depressed and thats not the way to beat cancer.you must keep her moving and happy and keep positive.the ons that lie there all stond up on pain meds felling sorry for themselves and constinly wanting pitty are the ons that dont beat cancer.YOU MUST BE POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT! weed will helpm with nasia and help her eat and keep her happy. best of luck

i for got to mention she has been in remission for 4 almost 5 years when she went for her last ex ray the doc said it totaly just disaperd he dumbfounded but glad it was gone.in the begining she was told that her chances of living was 50% chance and she did it KEEP POSITVE!!! and good luck

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Originally Posted by skunke

I dont smoke weed that often once every couple months or so, it has really helped me when i felt extremly depressed.

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So, my advice to improve your well being is: do smoke more often, as much as you can. It helps you and you do know it. So, why not?

And it would be VERY good if you were able to convince your mom to do the same. Cancer is a bitch, chemo is another bitch, and together they can fuck anyones life. Cannabis is an invaluable herb for treating the problems caused by this two bitches. It can literally turn ones life from hell to heaven if one were suffering this health problems. I would advise you to look at our medical section, there is a LOT of useful information there.
Also, try to talk with Birdgirl73. If my stoner memory doesnt fail me, she has a sister that also had problems with cancer and chemo, and cannabis worked wonders in her case. Surely she would give you a lot of good advice.
Anyway, good luck, and i hope the best for you and your mom. :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by skunke

I was wondering if anyone could post their thoughts on my issue that I am having., My sense of well being has become extreml low, i have been feeling depressed for the past 1 year, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer last summer, this situation has changed her completly as the chemo has effected her personalty, it changed her into a monster, shes has become hostile,voilent,provocative,and manupilitive. In the past year my self well being has decreased, i have become depressed ,feel like mental capabilty has decreased (studdering when i speak) and disconected (slightly dreamy), My social life has also signifantly sufferd. I dont smoke weed that often once every couple months or so, it has really helped me when i felt extremly depressed.The solution to help myself i believe is too elimatate the stresses and negetive aspects in my life for myself.
Just wondering what your guys and gals thougths on my situaion would be!
Thanks:)

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You seem like a nice kid. Consider the depression a side effect from the realization that you could lose your mom to cancer. Maybe you should seek help from other people who also suffer at the hands of this degenerative disease? The internet is not only good for visiting cannabis communities after all. ;) On the other hand, maybe you are being a little bit selfish. In my humble opinion whenever moms become monsters, often times what is good for your mom turns out to be good for yourself, which is to say do not complain about the situation. Sure your mom may be acting a little unruly but she is facing issues she is not familiar with. It might be only natural to act out. Besides haven't you ever seen her on her period? :jointsmile:

Thanks for the advice everyone, How would you guys think i should bring up the topic of her trying it, i have mentioned to her the thereputic effects of cannabis , she strongly believe in herbs and alternative medicne so you guys have any good tips?

Hey 8182KSKUSH
Im not looking for a justification for my smoking bud, Im selfish? everyone has some egocentrism in them but what whould you feel in my boots? Imagine waking up not to your alarm clock but to the sound of yelling? Walking down to the kitchen and knowing that you will be yelled at no matter what, even for things that she will know you will do in the future. Being told its, your fault shes sick, your poisonig me , killing me ect..... MULTIPLY THIS BY 365 days and how would you feel my friend?

Sorry to hear all this man, sounds like your going through hell. I didn't know chemo caused all sorts of mood swings and the like.

Tell your mom you love her, over and over again. Positivity dude.

Just remember, when you've hit rock bottom there ain't nowhere to go but up baby.