Well, i wouldn't say that Rockwool and DWC aren't compatible.
What i would suggest is this, Veg your plants as long as you see fit in your rockwool cubes, just make sure roots are sufficiently coming out the bottom of the cube (more than one tiny root poking through).
Put a thin layer of hydroton across the bottom of your netpot (like 1 rock high...) then set your rockwool cube with roots coming out of the bottom on top of that thin layer of rocks. gently fill the rest of the net pot with hydroton until it's full to your liking. Then place the netpot into your res/solution/5 gal bucket...whatever you are using...keep the water level just high enough to touch the thin layer of rocks...maybe touching the bottom of the rockwool. As long as you have sufficient aeration the roots will explode. After about 3 days you should notice some roots poking down through the bottom of the net pot. Once that happens simply drain just enough water so the roots are in the solution but the bottom of the net pot is above the water. That way the roots will continue to grow into the solution and the rockwool won't be soaking.
dunno if that's the best way...but i've been doing it over and over now with great results.
best of luck
Skeet
PS - Also...make sure your res is LIGHT PROOF and water temp is cool. I wrap my 5 gallon buckets with black plastic. Others use duct tape or black spray paint.
