& money! Good thing I like to fish! pr :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by silkyblue
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& money! Good thing I like to fish! pr :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by silkyblue
If youre a girl: *hugs back*Quote:
Originally Posted by bhouncy
If youre a guy: WTF??? :wtf:
LOL!:D
*BIG HUGS* to you Coelho. Big gay hugs.
Ummmmm... I practice unconditional annoyance. Most people really annoy me. I can safely say from years of experience that the world has rejected me, and nobody shows me love, so why the hell should I have love for the world? Probably an easier endeavor for those with friends and mates and whatnot. :wtf:
What the hell is going on with you people?? Is there some virus of gayness floating around there? DAMNIT!!! :mad:Quote:
Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
LOL! :D
The same for you old chapQuote:
Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
unconditional love?
unconditional hatred?
unconditional annoyance?
i've always been a big fan of unconditional indifference. yes; i'm a crotchety old fart who lives alone and i'm probably a bit bitter as well, but having little or no concern over those around me has stood me quite well for the last few decades and will probably satisfy me til the day i die. it isn't that i really don't give a damn about the rest of humanity, it's just that the people around me seem so insubstantial and appear to have absolutely no impact on my life. whether they adore me or despise me, it really doesn't seem to matter one little bit.
Coelho: gay means joyful! I believe! and you got a cheerful hug. Take it for what it is, as you kindly did and with such confidence--I love it! You are not being insulted, unconditionallly loved by so many of us! I think a lot of you! A psychological fact. those that are uncomfortable with 'gays' are generally uncomfortable with their own sex identity. I see you as a strong and confident man, from ever so many posts and threads I've read by you! I rad and think, I hope I go to Brazil one day, what a jewel they have there!
So a very nice lady bug hug to you-hope it helps! Plus, I think with all your awesome receipes--I thot you were a chick for quite some time! I think you rock and have a great deal of self confidence and hi on the likeability chart! Plus, you were MAN ENOUGH to say, :wtf: hugs back. That takes a very well adjusted person to do that! I cannot believe you are single-but some like it for all the time, some for some of the time and some for none of the time!
A man that cooks weed, rocks--that is all there is to it and bakes it too! Am waiting for your Barnes & Noble mmj cookbook! I do like you as you are! Have learned so much from you and respect you. You is :cool:!
Don: that explains a lot of what I've read from you!! I feel for you! I agree with you in a manner of speaking. I live by the tune that not everyone is going to get along or like me and that is just fine. That is what makes our world interesting! Some are rude about it, but it is their problem! It takes too much energy to take others bad vibes and feel anything about them (I will never have to hate someone-but it would be an adventure). When you send out vibes of kindness and love, it just feels better, in your heart! And sometimes comes back to you (so does the dark side). :( My wish for you, is to experience 'unconditional love!'
If you walk around and just smile at a person for no reason at all! It has been my experience they will say, " I love your smile!!" Either move on or try to start a conversation. I so not care for people in general, like my reclusivity--but I enjoy sending and showing SINCERE good feelings to see others day get brightened, cause it brightens mine! Have been told how appreciated it is, and how 'lady, I needed that, thank you!' It takes no energy to send out good feelings. I never have to see them again and it makes my heart fuzzy warm! I don't care how they feel about me--I care how I am treated! Which is why, I am all for unconditional love on the receiving end, just once in my life and not from my dogs! Oops, in addition to my dog-can't live without:thumbsup:
I have always known it, even if I don't feel any special feelings toward a person, I realize, I don't know them well enough to hate them or be indifferent! I attempt to set a better example. If it doesn't work, I just give up and send for good karma and boundless love for them! :D
You meet that person that just warms your heart and rocks your world. You don't know why, it just feels so warm and fuzzy and the hours of being alone watching your favorite show with popcorn and weed are enjoyable, but with unconditional love, you enjoy an afternoon drive and just feel at ease and know you don't have to talk and that connection is there. It is a special one, even if it is one sided.
If you are alone and 'stopping to smell the rose's'--like viewing Hatch's (a few other camera buffs) Trichomes and interesting pictures of such beautiful places and buds= my fav. grow logs! You can love yourself and get warm and fuzzy with all the planets in alignment! I give in and give it my all and say no no risk, no gain! (like growing)!:thumbsup:
Gandalf-you have so many people here that love and care about you. Have expressed it to you and you tend to ignore or refuse it! YOU ARE LOVED! Face it, you just need more than most. That is the type of person that it takes to be President or Oprah like!! You need the love, cause you got dropped on the head or spanked on the face instead of the butt when you were born (just kdding). I keep waiting to hear you say how you appreciate how much people are there for you and caring. Are you back in college yet? Hope so! Life just challenges us and that makes us a better person: If to no one else, to ourselves! After all, we are the only one we really have to live with! Might as well make it a good ride and enjoy it!
It gets old 'just giving' all you have and never having the other person commit to the unconditional part! That is what is so nice of nature, a spring, a deer in the headlight, little critters that are a nuisance are even fun and cute to watch ( a baby mouse, horny toad, chipmunk, quail birds, babbling brook or awesome sky line! Whatever it takes. Plus, it is so enjoyable to share them with another that you love!
B Adv.: You are cool and I think I recall, you work in one of the most stressful occupations on earth in the U.S.A. anyway. The people you work with are not of the best in the world. But, unconditonal hate, must make your days so lonnnngg! I think you are joking, I hope. I do not think I've ever seen you write such a thing (haven't read everything yet, though), mostly I see you as at the very least a content person! Certainly one that could and might already be loved unconditionally! ;)
SilkB: U got it, and understand. And I will add the Drs., gov't critters--'cept the ones I like and the ones on can.com! They are pretty cool and show unconditional love by all their response's to help us! I just want it back, they can keep the money! I want to know how it feels to be loved unconditionally! Just once! And not end up losing it all, in the end! It is possible to continue to unconditionally love and move on with someone else, too! I'd like to see that in my life as well and get to keep my little treasures I've had a lifetime, instead of watching them walk out with a greedy person I never saw through and let use me!
SilkB: Your first answer is what you are and me as well. It just seems we need the scales to balance!! I love your response. Because forgiveness and giving is where it is at. I am just feeling It is my turn and I bet u too!
bhouncey--what a wonderful and thoughtful thread! You must be a very special person!! Lucky people around you! Would love to have a person like you as a good friend! see friend request, please, I beg of you--I need the love! You have a wonderful attitude and I hope it lasts your entire lifetime!
It is nice to wake up and look out my window at all the chipmunks and little creatures, hours of entertainment.
A few weeks ago, I experienced meeting someone like you bouncey! He was a 45ish (don't know age) fellow. Was doing some yard work for me. When I wanted him to kill some rattlesnakes the best he would do is let me take the rattles and re-locate it. If I had known, I'd have left the rattles. Got them and then asked to turn the head around so I could chop it--he took off and said no! Later i was walking to move something and I stepped on a dead mouse (was near the snakes anyway). He got a little upset, I was feeling so awful for killing it (at least in front of him) and he said, "I accidently killed it, moved the dog house, it was under it and it was squashed!" We saw a real tiny baby mouse running and then flipped the mouse over, it was her new baby and doubt if it survives, ick! I respected and admire him for his sincere feelings of protecting all of our cute little creatures (even if those things eat my wires to my car, RV and cost a great deal of money. I do have State issued poison for them, and he wasn't too pleased about it! I just think of him as a very warm and loving guy. EVen told me when his girlfriend got Diabetes, it changed his life and the family. He spoke of her with 'unconditional love' instead of pretending he was single and on the chase! That gave me something to aspire to! He doesn't kill spiders either! I was impressed!
So, I guess the best way to impress me, is show and talk with a tone of unconditional love! It is contagious! We would not be at war and people hurting others, etc.
I vote for unconditonal love, world wide!!! I also vote for to receive it at home, all the time! I have seen people that appear to have it and I admit, it stirs my angst!
Most of all I love my mmj supplier and he knows it, with a hug and a kiss (a straight kiss on the cheek-he is married and a great dad and husband!
bhouncy--I hope this is not a jacking of your thread, if so, I so apologize! And will C if I can get it removed! It is a very interesting one for me. Since, I am dealing with the legal part of something that ended 2 years ago! I am very ready to move on, but you get stuck in legal stuff! And all I want is just my half-not the nothing at all syndrome that is on the table now! So, I hope I have your forgiveness, if I jacked (let me know-I am not exactly sure what all is considered a thread jack yet?), not my intention. Just that is where I am! And I love this topic!
Went to my mmj education meeting tonight, got my free mmj cupcake and feel so much better tonight! :rastasmoke:
Thanks for the thread! pr :thumbsup:
Most important, to give unconditional love, I believe we need to respect ourself first! Live a life we are not ashamed of. I try so hard to do that-to a point, my lawyer is pissed. I will only tell the truth, even if the other party is lying! I have to live with and look at the mirror at myself for the rest of my life. I need to live well enough to respect that person so I can others! :twocents: too many I expect!
I stay on can.com, cause I feel the love and I secretly admire someone! Which makes it all the more fun and enjoyable!
Peace and love to those that can accept it! :smokin: thread! :thumbsup:pr :thumbsup::thumbsup:
Toke more and love more! pr
Sorry, it is a book man: I tried to edit but the server is "too busy" and "too busy"! At 2:25 A.M.!! I guess, i am not for infolinks, this is not good, cannot edit.
My sincerest apology to everyone! Deleted a lot too! And corrected some spelling, and no edit!! grrrh!!
is it my eyes or are the InfoLinks gone? pr
Unconditional love is something I have for everyone. Some people don't understand it. Unconditional anything is pretty easy...taking things on a personal level is a little harder...especially with where I live, and the people that live here...but I love you. It's especially hard for people to accept when you are male haha...
Peace, Hugs, Unconditional Love and Big Green Tasty Buds to all!
Unconditional love is a lot like peace: fake. I'm sorry, but I have to call out everyone who says they practice it as a liar. Not necesarrily a bad person, more like misinformed. People only do things because they expect something in return. They might not know it exactly, but it's absolutely true. It might only be for that little warm glow in your stomach, or it might be because you get paid, but no one does anything nice just to do it. Not even priests, because they'll go to hell if they don't. A cynical view of the world, I know, but that's just how humans work, we're selfish and will do almost everything possible to survive. In the end that's all being nice will help to do; hopefully keep you alive a bit longer.