A parent's struggling to be a parent.

Stinky has it right-you must find out what triggers/sets it off for you. being on the receiving end of IT is not pretty and im an adult-my boys had it tough with there mom.I can only imagine how your kids are coping with it.My ex felt Very guilty about her outburst after the fact.You are on the right path for 1 seeing the problem and 2 seeking advice.I hope you find the answers you seek--good luck-smello

learn as ya go, learn from your slips and don't let your emotions get the best of you. I deal with the same issues as you everyday, your not alone out there.