Relationships

whats the big deal, bro? relationships dont mean anything.. our parents, friends, hollywood, the guy working at the store, everyone.. they all want you to think that getting married, having kids, blah blah blah is what lifes all about.. its all bullshit, man.. seriously.. my mum has been married twice, divorced twice.. and shes still going on about how she needs to "find a man to settle down with" because she thinks shes old and dying without a husband or partner is like THE worst thing that can happen.. yeah, right! relationships dont mean shit man.. humans are just too arrogant to accept the fact that we're animals, and we need to fuck to survive.. so we invented relationships, and the emotions that go with them, to make it seem like something more special than just 'procreation'. dammit im so stoned, and typing while stoned is confusing.. i keep hitting the keys, but then im not sure if i actually hit them or if i actually made sense, then i look at the screen and i did, but then i look at the keys again and i forget what i was saying, but i keep typing anyway, then i look at the screen and ive just typed a whole paragraph =/

:D ERMIT....m8 when the times right the time is right.... :D

Yeah I definitely feel the vibes everybody has responded with.

I was in a long term, 5 year relationship with a girl. Those were college years, mind you. We were hardcore in love, but eventually it just waned, and I broke stuff off. I regret it now, but I trust in myself that I made the right decision.

So I'm definitely looking for love again, I feel you GhostToker, but all I've been coming up with is ho's.... hos and hos and hos. And an exceptional girl I've met online, but she's long distance and the online thing isn't my thing. So I was just kinda depressed and venting. I've got no problems getting ass, and quality ass as well, but at the end of the day, one still feels alone.

Ermitonto
Well is there anything wrong with you? Objectively, are you ugly? Do you find that it's hard to engage in conversation with chicks? Are you boring? You can't just be yourself and score chicks, if you're a normal guy. You have to be awesome in their eyes. I recommend picking up a movie that recently came out called The Tao of Steve... it'll show you everything you need to know :).

Oh yeah, and step number one, get rid of the faggy french quotes, they won't dig that :-D

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Originally Posted by BigVTDave

Ermitonto
Well is there anything wrong with you? Objectively, are you ugly? Do you find that it's hard to engage in conversation with chicks? Are you boring? You can't just be yourself and score chicks, if you're a normal guy. You have to be awesome in their eyes. I recommend picking up a movie that recently came out called The Tao of Steve... it'll show you everything you need to know :).

Oh yeah, and step number one, get rid of the faggy french quotes, they won't dig that :-D

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No, I wouldn't say I'm really ugly...but I'm no Brad Pitt. I've just never had a girlfriend so I don't know what to do to get one. I've always figured I'd just stumble across someone eventually, but it ain't happening, or at least hasn't happened yet. And fuck being anyone else than myself. I don't even want to bother with someone who can't accept me for who I am. I'm smart and nice to everyone but I'm kind of an introvert and I don't talk much unless I have to. I don't attend too many social events like parties and such, and don't really get out much because I don't have a car or a driving license or even a bike. I've been pretty much stuck on this campus for a year and a half and I still don't really have any real friends, just...acquaintances. And all those female acquaintances have boyfriends. I figure it's just another couple years till I move out of here anyways, so I can't get too attached, but still it's kind of lonely.

And what's wrong with my French quote? It's not "faggy" at all, if you know what it means ("I would like, and this is the last and most ardent of my wishes, I would like to see the last king strangled with the intestines of the last priest").

Grinning from ear to ear... awesome you've got spine. You'll do just fine.

Looks like the last ingredient you need is simply exposure. Exposure in a sense of more women quantity wise, eventually you'll meet someone who clicks, it's inevitable, barring any huge personality faults. Even on campus, get involved. I moved to a college 1200 miles away from where I went to high school. I didn't know a damn person. I met some of my best long term friends and that ex I was talking about within the first two months.

Lastly, the magic trick, the silver bullet of having women really enjoy your company.... simple humor. Being able to get laughs, both with sophistication and without, is girl-nip.

I was just being an ass with the french thing. Quote away. But if a chick doesn't understand it, they might very well have the same reaction I did, the ignorant kind, haha.