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Originally Posted by The Great Wave

the girl in the other couple is always calling me "honey". ill ask a question or something and she'll respond with a "well its like this, honey" or some retarded degrading bullshit.

also, the guy in the group is always snapping at her (they are married).

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Houston, there is your problem. We have a pecking order situation. Cock is peckin' on his own hen. She's gonna turn around and assert her superiority in the only way she knows how, by talking down to others the way she herself allows herself to be treated.

Tell that bitch off. Hell, condescend right back at her... next time she gets up to use the ladies' room, you might step in there to powder your own nose as well.... here's a script:

"Honey, I'm sorry that your husband treats you like dirt in public, but just because you tolerate that sort of treatment doesn't mean everyone likes it. Don't use that fucking condescending tone with me ever again."

And MEAN it.

I couldnt understand who was who and the 3 rd party insertion..I am still catching my breath from the story too.

Im so confused:wtf:

Bottom line,life is way way to short to be around people that arent nice to you.I know this is an over simplistic way of looking at the world but its worked for me for a long time.I truly believe in my heart that what comes back to us in our life is a directly correlated to what we give out.I might be a bit off topic here but have you ever noticed those old folks who just looked pissed all the time,the lines in their faces turn down into a perma frown?I believe that as we get older we get boiled down to our essence and it shows up on our faces,wrinkles are fine and natural and that is much different than looking like you want to take somebodies head off.Sorry about the wandering post,just remember you have the power to decide who will and will not be included in your life and if they cant be nice,there loss.Hope this helps,take care,be well,and most of all be safe.

tell that ho off. if you even think she's being condescending then she probably is. i like stinkyattic's response.