Being a nice guy.......

Being the Nice guy sucks royal ass! I ussually let people walk all over me, but to the hell with that! I'm through with being a door mat! With my X-wife especially! I've been way to nice to her since the break up even though she moved in a guy into the house after we broke up, when i was still livin there! (its was hard to find a affordable place to rent on a single income) and pretended like nothin was going on, but in truth they were dating! So now its been 8 months, and I've tried to remain friends with her, but no its just too much for almost the past 4 months she's not paid her half of the cell bill, and now when i'm gettin pissed off about it she tells me she wants nothin to do with me again, and never to call her again!
Sooo I say to the hell with it, buh-bye celll phone!! and hello divorce!! I'm through with being the Nice guy to her, she's my Ex for gawd's sake, what the F was I thinkin??? I never wanted her back if thats what your thinking..

Girls like the mind game chase its not even about being a nice guy, an asshole or anything accept smart. Its about the game you pull from the knowledge you have from observing girls. Once you watch them and hang around them for a little while and try some different things and see reactions from them, you can pretty much peice together any girls mind set so you can just win the mind game and have them in the position you want them in instead of the other way around. Quicker pussy from the girl you actually want in other words to.

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sadly, girls don't care about relationships with nice guys, they love talking to them and being friends with them, but in the end.

it sucks.

if you havent had a relationship yet that's probably why you're still a nice guy, a good bad relationship will strip the nice out of you :)

"The key to a girl's heart is indifference."

I hate the fact that I avoid conflict at all costs. I've been a little better about it lately though and I will stand up for myself more.

I just didn't act too interested at first. Maybe Macro is right, indifference might be the way.

And, today she called and said she needed a ride to UCSD. It was a nice hour long ride. We actually have a LOT in common. Nothing happened, but hey, I havn't even known her for 24 hours. I met her roomates too at the end. Then I bailed.

I'm gonna invite her over to my room to smoke sometime this week.

meh, it has it's downsides, just as with ANYthing else int he world.... i'd rather be a nice guy then a bad ass tho... something about having my freedom for more than 2 months at a time just screams my name....

I was a nice guy when I was a kid too. You don't get a lot of pussy. Know I thrive on conflict. Couldn't give a shit less who I argue with as long as I get argue.

My husband is a nice guy. You know what it got him? A hot MILF who loves him to death and would do anything for him.

Nice guys rock.

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Originally Posted by imitator

If you are interested in picking up young immature chicks, or just getting a quick lay, then being a nice guy isnt in your interest.

When you start dealing with older women, its a bit better to be a nice guy, but that doesnt mean being a little insecure pussy either, as that turns off most girls.

Its a balancing act really.

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Right. My husband is nice, but he can hold his own. He's a helluva fighter. He's nice, but he's nobody's punk.

Nice guys is definitely the pits! haha. But just find some girl who will FUCK you over. And you'll be WAY BETTER! Just as Imitator said "its all a balancing act". After you get screwed and see you got walked all over, you move to the middle or just become a dick. I Moved to the middle... and its WAY better.