Son of a bitch..

It's a shame you two can't have an amicable, platonic relationship if nothing else. I admit, when my g/f of 6 months broke up with me, i couldn't stop thinking about her. I still do think about her because this happened nearly a week ago, but not as much and now after that time, i feel more rational and confident. I don't really feel like risking getting rejected, rite now but in a little bit more time i will be. What really helped me is talking with true friends, they really put my situation in to the life perspective, the big picture. Although this may hurt before heal, one must think of the violent oppresion which trumps our own sadness. We must look to the murders of the innocent and focus our energy and prayers, if be it to those that need help more then ourselves. Through this act, we shall heal, though at first like a bandade, the feelings shall rush forth, after time, the feelings are felt no more. I wish you luck and a swift journey on the persuit of happiness. It exists without the need for a man, focus on you rite now.

Just always remember....you were breathing before him and you'll keep breathing after him...just take it one breath at a time...I don't know the details of the breakup, but remember he's an ex for a reason. And if he's dating the chick that he "almost" cheated on you with, I'd bet it's probably a pretty good reason. Give yourself time, focus on the important things (finding a place to live) and try not to stress yourself..easier said than done, but smoke another bowl and anything is possible. :)

i think it has to be one of the worst idea's to try and occupy your mind with something else Like some one stated fuck another guy or go find someone else. Yeah i dont know in what world that works but it wont in this. The simplest thing to do is just try and continue to take care of yourself, Go about your day, if ur thinkin about him, dont push it away, the more u try and suppress it the more emotional u will probably be about it. Most people and by most i do not mean me, seem to get by better by just continuing life, not brusihing it off, but taking and understading what it was for. If its one thing i have never understood is why girls like dick heads of guys...

look at it this way if he almost or mabye did cheat on you he did you a big favor cause ud never wanna be with an asshole like that anyway. it sucks but it wasnt meant to be.

Always be confident, and true to yourself. No person is worth risking yourself for. Its good to try and keep yourself as busy and positive as possible, positive energy will get you anywhere you want to go!

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Originally Posted by ScaryMissMary

Everything that can go wrong is going wrong......................... I want to hate him, I NEED to hate him.

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I don't know the background but I'm willing to bet he still loves you, if he doesn't then he isn't worth worrying about, easier said than done I know. If your break up wasn't on bad terms or something unforgivable then give him a call. Have a good chat, this way you you can get some sort of closure and put your mind at ease. Good luck with your current situation, and I hope it turns out for the best.

Ugh...been there done that way too many times and the only way it ever gets better is when you figure out how to let go. Life's a journey and this is only a bump in the road, right?

Sounds like you need a distraction to help get ya by the pain... not necessarily a guy but something that keeps your mind fresh and busy. Keep your chin up and remember that HE is an asshole, and YOU are better without him. Really, you are...

What's your sign and what is his? Just a question.

I'd tell you to turn on your careless attitude and make him complain his way out of the relationship, or what's left of it.

Just every time you go to thinking about him just think of all the loser qualities in him and stay dedicated to that frame of mind. And in time you'll be over him and hopefully under Mr. Right. Stay strong.