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"True love always comes back" is what I say, both get some life experience, then in a few years time or whatever when you see eachother you may have changed how you feel or feel even more strongly about eachother. either way you will have both had some time to build on your own lives and if you get back together you will be able to build on your future together, by then you will have a good career and she will have had time to grow up more.
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would you rather walk away now, having had a great experience with a girl who you consider to be a best friend and like family, or risk going back and ruin what could have been a great life long friendship between the two of you? Most high school relationships dont last in the long run. Most girls dont know what they want by the time they're in college, let alone still in high school. If you're relationship cant stay together when you're miles apart, how do you expect it to stand the test of time? It sounds like you are being offered a very good opportunity, do you really want to throw that away?
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Take the job dude fuck uh bitch she dont even know that she wants to be with u right now ur sprung dude its not love both of u are too young to be in real love. A job is a for sure thing a girl is not, even if everything is going good they change from one day to the next. YOU need to get your priorities str8 man love should not be your 1st thing to do at ur age just like in the movie scarface first u get the MONEY then u get the power THEN U GET THE WOMAN u dont want to keep learning the hard way. at 18 you need to be foucused on YOU YOURSELF AND YOU AGAIN:jointsmile:
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whats up brother? take the job. far as the girl is concerned,
A. dont get 2 emtionally involved this will fuck up B
B. always remain in control, dont get too lost in any 1 detail. the more u know about anything and the less she knows about everything, better off youll be:thumbsup:
girls just wanna have fun. play it cool.
DONNY:stoned:
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dude 18 bucks an hour? fuck her. or just make plans with her till she graduates so she can find a job where you live and you guys can get a place together. with that money you could afford it.
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Originally Posted by TheGreatBenzino
KK homie! thanx for the advice. I agree with everything you say. Except, the most important thing in my life is love. I know i have a future, no matter if i take this oppurtunity or not.
If you don't care that your future involves you bagging groceries and barely being able to make your mortgage payment, (assuming you even have enough money to save up for a down payment on a home that is), then by all means, go for "love". But really, you are very immature in thinking that you will miss out on love if you dump her for your future. There will always be another, and you really need to get your career together before you get in any serious relationships. You are passing up on an opportunity very few people are ever offered, you are foolish to do so over a relationship!
The best advice I can give you is to listen to the Tom Leykis show. Go to BlowmeupTom.com and click the "Listen Live" link in the upper right corner.
You probably have heard of him, he was on in Phoenix for a short time till the station dropped him, but you can always listen online from 3-8pm online, and I strongly suggest you do so. He mostly advises young guys simply how to get more tail with less money, his show brings up good reasons why you never should get married, or be in a serious relationship until you have your career together first.
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Take the job, you need to think about YOU. Yes I know you love her, believe me.. I am the person who would understand the most. I unfortunately am in love with an asshole who would step on my corpse if I died. We were together for a long time and I would die for him. You are so young, and you need to explore other opportunities. Things you never dreamed of happening will happen, and Im not talking about all good things either. I don't mean to be a bitch but you aren't thinking clearly. For God's sake shes still in high school, she doesn't really know what she wants even though she thinks she does. You need to grow up a little bit. If she wanted to be with you, she would be.
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SMM sounds like u are in a shitty situation too. Maybe u just need to get out?
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Whats up my homies!! Updateifications! 1. I am getting me AS at a tech school in 3 months, and will make 25 to 30$ph outta school... so i am not worried about bagging grocery's. 2. I am 20, not too young, but not old. 3. I decided to decide myself, and not leave my eternal fate to that of a website (I do however, love your insight).
the funny thing though.... is put yourself in my situation.... you wouldnt make the right decision EVEN if you read this shit EVERYDAY!!!
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yes you are too young... 20 is very young to tie yourself down. Im only 21 and even I know Im still too young.