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Hey MississippiSteve, we have been life members there for a long time now!! It's a fine site. This site has members in our area, in our age range.
Swinging is not for everyone. It will NOT fix a marriage. It's not the jelous. If you can shake off that, *he's mine, she's mine* attitude, you may have some fun.
It starts with talking and listening to each other.
Absolutely... FWIW, the jellousy thing is not a problem with us... no drama here. My GF has been having some medical probs that we have been dealing with for almost a year... her doc finally has it figured out and we are getting it under control.Quote:
Originally Posted by PlantBoxer
In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.
I use the same nic on Yahoo as I do on SLS... give it a shot some time.
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Swinging is just a matter of trust and personal preference. I peronally really get off with watching my guy with other partners, if you did it only to benifit yourself I really don't think you'd last in the lifestyle, it would probably make your relationship fall apart.
It is hard, MississippiSteve to find actualy partners who you're compatiable with and then set up a date that works for everyone, but I'd like to believe the chase is what makes the outcome all that more enjoyable! ^,^
[In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.]
So true man. For us, if we start to talk to folks, we find, so many are in such a hurry, like *playtime* gets all used up or something!! We like to invite like minded folks to our house, for a noncommittal dinner, some drinks, and evaluation. If the lady isnt talking, or cant warm up, usually fear is not going to let playtime happen. We also watch how the man reacts, if he is pushy, or constantly urgeing his wife to reach out to my lady, something is wrong, something just isnt sitting well.
Most couples we meet, both are seeking fun and frolic, you just feel a nice friendly atmosphere. A lite touch to a hand, an arm, rubbing shoulders, then looking directly into a ladies eyes lets you know if she is comfortable, is ready for farther exploration...respectfully, directly, nice slow motions, carressing her largest lovemaking organ, the skin. Worship her skin man, and she will melt.
Ever show up to a MeetnGreet, and realize, the other couple...the lady, is your cousin?!! What a great laugh we got from that!! And NO, no playtime that time!!
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Well put..... folks after our own hearts.
Yes our home is always open to friends we haven't met yet.
Went to a house party several years ago and ran into one of the folks I worked with at the time... that was ummmm.......interesting. We came to an agreement to go to the parties on alternate dates. That worked out well.