If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
eh... not as simple as you'd think, I've never asked a girl out before or had a relationship, a kiss, anything (and yeah, I'm 22). I know I'll ask her somehow though, we've known each other for 2 years and been good friends, I'd kick myself in the ass every day if I had to spend the rest of my life wondering. It just sucks when ya have no clue how to go about this stuff, ya know?
I know... Back in the day I got higher than anybody I've ever met, I'm talkin' full-on psychadelic trips of pure bliss that surpassed any hallucinogen I've ever done. But now... now I feel "smothered" for lack of a better word, depressed, and in massive physical pain when I smoke. The gods are out to get my I tell's ya.
i'm worried it may come out wrong, but stop pittying yourself!
dude, i was shy as fuck too.. the only reason i got laid at 15 was because a girl made the first move.. only reason me and my wife ever first kissed was cuz she made the first move... if it hadn't been for them making the first move, i'd of never done anything and be in the same boat as you..
but if it hadn't of been for my wife making the first move i might of never even gotten involved with her, and that'd be like throwing away a winning lottery ticket...
just make the moves dude.. i never did, but i really hate to think of what i may have missed if someone didn't pick up where i lacked.... i really do...
just do it.. (i doubt i'm going ot convince you, but i honestly really hope i do)
what are you missing if you pass up the chance to tell her once and for all? what are you passing up if you just let her go?
there is no right or wrong way, you just do it... stop trying to live up to tv, movies and stories... everyone has their own personality and own stories... that's what makes us choose people while we turn down others, if we did everything the same or based it the same, it wouldn't matter who you got with... we'd just fuck the first thing that isn't already pregnant and raise our young with no emotional attachment...
as cheesy as it sounds, go with nike... "just do it"
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
As pathetic as it is, just to have an endless supply of money. What I don't use in my lifetime, I'll give to those I deem worthy, at the time, with a will updated every month.
I'm so completely sick and tired of being poor. Those who say that money can't buy happiness, I believe, are wrong and, probably, just saying that in the hopes that those who do have such wealth aren't any happier than we are. I think that's a lie. With money can come great happiness.
Money.
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
i'm worried it may come out wrong, but stop pittying yourself!
dude, i was shy as fuck too.. the only reason i got laid at 15 was because a girl made the first move.. only reason me and my wife ever first kissed was cuz she made the first move... if it hadn't been for them making the first move, i'd of never done anything and be in the same boat as you..
but if it hadn't of been for my wife making the first move i might of never even gotten involved with her, and that'd be like throwing away a winning lottery ticket...
just make the moves dude.. i never did, but i really hate to think of what i may have missed if someone didn't pick up where i lacked.... i really do...
just do it.. (i doubt i'm going ot convince you, but i honestly really hope i do)
what are you missing if you pass up the chance to tell her once and for all? what are you passing up if you just let her go?
there is no right or wrong way, you just do it... stop trying to live up to tv, movies and stories... everyone has their own personality and own stories... that's what makes us choose people while we turn down others, if we did everything the same or based it the same, it wouldn't matter who you got with... we'd just fuck the first thing that isn't already pregnant and raise our young with no emotional attachment...
as cheesy as it sounds, go with nike... "just do it"
Well thanks dude, but believe you me I don't need any convincing! I'm just nervous because I've never done it before, and I'm worried about ruining a really good friendship if she says no. But when it comes right down to it, I couldn't torture myself like this forever having never said anything, I HAVE to tell her and there's no way I'm not going to.
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As pathetic as it is, just to have an endless supply of money. What I don't use in my lifetime, I'll give to those I deem worthy, at the time, with a will updated every month.
I'm so completely sick and tired of being poor. Those who say that money can't buy happiness, I believe, are wrong and, probably, just saying that in the hopes that those who do have such wealth aren't any happier than we are. I think that's a lie. With money can come great happiness.
Money.
Man I totally understand you. Me and my family spent a 6 year period where we were so poor it was a big event when we got to go to Tim Hortons and grab a coffee. I am so glad those days are passed. Money doesn't necessarily buy hapiness, but a certain base amount is necessary for it. Poverty limits your options, I really wish you the best in making it out. And you can if you really devote yourself!
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by Gothen
As pathetic as it is, just to have an endless supply of money. What I don't use in my lifetime, I'll give to those I deem worthy, at the time, with a will updated every month.
I'm so completely sick and tired of being poor. Those who say that money can't buy happiness, I believe, are wrong and, probably, just saying that in the hopes that those who do have such wealth aren't any happier than we are. I think that's a lie. With money can come great happiness.
Money.
where do you think my wish stems from? :p
only my case is a bit worse... for the first 10 or so years of my life we were 'rich'... you remember back before the truth of credit cards came out, and left so many bankrupt?.... well my grandma has filed bankruptcy twice now..
reading a book and seeing "chapter 13" always reminded me of about... age 11.. i instantly forgot about the book and thought of how things used to be..
my grandpa had busted his ass all his life, up until about i was 6-7.. plant labororer, and actually he was one of hte highest up people at the plant.. so they had GREAT credit, and with that came lots of credit cards and we could afford it too...
then he lost his job... and became an alcoholic.. then came the bills we couldn't pay... over 15 diffrent cards... everyone maxed out...
i went from 'wealthy' to poor in the matter of a year... so i know both sides... as much as i agree money can't buy happiness.. IT CAN HELP!!! anyone to say otherwise is naive...
anyways mr. alter identity (:jointsmile:) just do it dude... think about it this way.. what kinda friendship do you really have if you can't tell that friend how you really feel?
IF she said no it may be akward, but it'd never end a real friendship to begin with... if she really is a friend you stand nothing to lose and everything to gain.
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
where do you think my wish stems from? :p
anyways mr. alter identity (:jointsmile:) just do it dude... think about it this way.. what kinda friendship do you really have if you can't tell that friend how you really feel?
IF she said no it may be akward, but it'd never end a real friendship to begin with... if she really is a friend you stand nothing to lose and everything to gain.
uh... dude, you're not reading my response. I'm going to do it, no question.
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
uh... dude, you're not reading my response. I'm going to do it, no question.
i did read it... but i've heard that response alot..
i hope you don't think i'm getting on your ass or anything, or trying to be overly assertive.....
i'm just trying to get you to do so before it's too late...
do you got an email listed in your profile? cuz i'd love to give you my story as you seem to experience alot i did... my story is very similar to yours...
i nearly lost my chance, infact, it was only by chance i managed to get my 2nd one (my wife, joined the navy.... before i could tell her anything at all... i searched for years, hell... i even called miss cleo to see if she'd come back in my life [yes i was that much in love)
all i care about is you not letting the chance pass you by... hardly anyone is as lucky as i am.. once the chance is gone, for the most part it is gone... adn i can't begin to tell you the pain i felt..
and not only did this happen once, it happened TWICE... once for me confessing my love, and another for completely lying to and screwing over (as weird as it sounds, it was unintentional, but i have a heavy conscience...) someone else.
just promise me, if the 'time' (i.e. you found out it's your very last oppurtunity) you will NOT let it pass you by...
there is no pain i've felt (adn i have felt alot) greater t hen the 'what could have been' thoughts...
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
infinite superpower. i'd use it for the common good as much as my own benefit.
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
i did read it... but i've heard that response alot..
i hope you don't think i'm getting on your ass or anything, or trying to be overly assertive.....
i'm just trying to get you to do so before it's too late...
do you got an email listed in your profile? cuz i'd love to give you my story as you seem to experience alot i did... my story is very similar to yours...
i nearly lost my chance, infact, it was only by chance i managed to get my 2nd one (my wife, joined the navy.... before i could tell her anything at all... i searched for years, hell... i even called miss cleo to see if she'd come back in my life [yes i was that much in love)
all i care about is you not letting the chance pass you by... hardly anyone is as lucky as i am.. once the chance is gone, for the most part it is gone... adn i can't begin to tell you the pain i felt..
and not only did this happen once, it happened TWICE... once for me confessing my love, and another for completely lying to and screwing over (as weird as it sounds, it was unintentional, but i have a heavy conscience...) someone else.
just promise me, if the 'time' (i.e. you found out it's your very last oppurtunity) you will NOT let it pass you by...
there is no pain i've felt (adn i have felt alot) greater t hen the 'what could have been' thoughts...
Yeah I definately see what you're getting at man, and your advice is appreciated. I think my e-mail's in my profile, but either way it's [email protected]
You're right about how i could miss the opportunity, I have many times with her now. It was all so clear in my mind, I felt so confident that I was going to tell her, then I was with her and my mind just went blank and all the brilliant plans I had laid out suddenly vanished. Haha, and once I did have my mind all together and ready to tell her, and when I came by she had a horrible hangover so that opportunity went down the tubes.
Believe me though, I've thought about this endlessly and there's nobody in the world that could be more perfect for me. That she came into my life at all is a miracle. Honestly what I was thinking was taking a half-tab of E before telling her. I've only used it once and have no desire to again, but it made me incredibly open, sociable, and didn't hinder my mental capacity at all.
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
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Originally Posted by Gandalf_The_Grey
To my the obvious one would be powers of omnipitance. Then you could just give yourself whatever you want whenever you want. But that aside, I'd pick one of these:
(The biggest for me) - That I could finally tell ____ how I feel about her, and we could be together happily. She's not gonna live in my town again for another month though. I think about her every day and the wait is killing me. Sometimes I wonder if she'd still be interested in me at all :(
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man i feel ya bro... :(
If you could have one wish, what it would be?
More chron...my bags nearly gone >_<
