advice please!

build a shed in the backyard and grow in there. Put up a sign that says "He-man wuman haterz club.. no women allowed" If she goes in after that, tell her you are very dissappointed in her and you set the whole thing up just to test her willpower. If she cant even respect your privacy, how can you trust each other? Then turn it around on her and start crying like a little girl. Then get angry, then make love in the kitchen. Make sure to use kitchen utensils and film it. Send the film to......

oh wait.. sorry. Nah I dunno what to tell you. If a girl every gave me an ultimatum like that, then she clearly isnt the girl of my dreams and I would pick the plant without blinking or hesitating, staring her in the eyes the whole time. The girl of my dreams would either be fine with any marijuana-related ventures I might undertake, or be right along side me with em.

you could maybe ask her if you grow them at a budddy house? or something like that? hope it works for you :)

Don't change who you are for anybody. If she really loves you, it shouldn't matter what you do.

she lives with u so u have to respect her wishes. some ppl just dont want a grow op in there house. i would jsut start them out and say u will put them outside once they get a bit bigger. if she stills want u to by then then go plant them outside.

Confirming it is Your House or Hers?

apt in both our names, i think i'll just keep bringing it up to her