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She has to have forgiveness in her heart. No matter what you do, unless she truly forgives you, nothing can progress.
But nothing will come of it if you don't have a real talk with her. Miscommunication is causing a lot of problems. You gotta say how you feel, and make it clear.
Usually when people say they "want space" it means they are reconsidering their options. You say you're afraid to ask and you don't want her mad at you. (smart thought btw) so that puts you in the position of "wait and see." At this point she may not really know HOW she feels about you. This can be both good and bad....starting "semi" over can be good for a relationship if everyone has learned from it but it can also be a thorn in future arguments (you guys fight alot you said) The most you can do here is be supportive and float around in the wings without invading her "space." She'll notice.....believe me. ;)
Good luck. ;)
Good luck. ;)
what do you want us to tell you? we gave you the best advice and you went against it anyways... even tho pretty much everyone agreed to the same conclusion...
what does it matter what we tell you now? if we say no, you're probably just gonna stay with her anyways hoping we're wrong, yet again.
i warned you dude... you're in for an even longer harsher road this way... just mark my words and watch...
shoulda listened to us the first time, honestly.
Just think of it this way, it's not gonna get any easier, if not harder to end it so why don't you just do it now so you can get rid of the pain sooner?Quote:
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
Well as they say.. "absence makes the heart grow fonder" so i guess theres nothing you can do but give her the space she wants and just see how things go.
nothing in life thats worth it isnt hard
yeah girls huh cant live with out em, good luck main
Dude it sounds like me n my ex... We dated on and off from about 6th grade to my sophmore year and college... I was the stupid ass who always took her back after she would break up with me.. And i got hurt worse and worse everytime. I was madly in love with her. And i know she loved/still has love for me but this is becuz we have been best friends since 6th grade pretty much.. Its not worth in the long run she is either getting annoyed or bored. My suggestions would to be move on.. I dont really know your whole situation but in mine I woulda of been better to just move on.. Women can really get to your head, i know from experience i swear she made me a lil crazy. And once you start experiencing other girls youll think so much different about her.. good luck bro,, and keep ya head up
Thanks bat man...
I know she was getting annoyed at how I act...and Ive definately learned how to fix that...
but if shes bored, I guess im screwed...
= (
If she wants some "space", she probably already has somebody else in mind. If she ain't riding him, she's already got him cut from the herd. Time to cut your losses and look somewhere else.