I'm sick of the bullshit.

Well not all men are the same (how you described) but most are well especially at the age of 16 - 20 ish then most of them start to mature, I think that maybe it might be because you show all the men you have been with that your basically soft, remember to play hard to get to make your man want you more, if you simply just give him all the love and affection and sex as soon as you get with him then hes just gonna think, ok mission over.

But obviously i could be wrong it could be the sort of guys you go for, think about it what type of guys do you go for do they all act or dress the same way? How old are the guys you normally go for? because it could have something to do with that

Well apart from that all i can say is theres definately someone out there for everybody, and you will find mr. right out there one day everyone always does, You have to go through some bastards, people you dont like to get to the one you love, plenty more fish in the sea, Dont give up searching Baisez x :).

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Originally Posted by baisez le monde.

impossible to find a man out there who doesn't think solely with his fucking dick.

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At least you get it, no man in the world wants women for love its all about how fast you can get them into bed. Any man that says that's a lie, is a fucking lair. And the sooner you find this out the sooner you will be happy. Stop spending all this time to find the perfect guy because in the end your going to get fucked over because hell all I want is pussy and I get laid and girls have to understand relationships are not desired and men are only after one thing. Life is about fun, and living life to the fullest not crying over some dick.

Learn to play the game and get some dick. :thumbsup:

Haha grow up.

There's two sides to this.


Today's women want equal pay, and also want guys that make more than they do.

They want guys that treat them nice, but who are extremely aggressive in their careers and dealings in other areas.

They want "sensitivity", but not too much or they won't respect him.

I could go on.



Despite what the feminist leaders say, you can't "have it all". Women, and men, have to make compromises. No exceptions.


I was single in the 60's, 70's, 80's and half of the nineties. I took very little bullshit, and would not settle for anyone that was wrong. I'm glad I waited.

Guys who put up with too much are contributing to the raw deal most American men are getting. ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?

Baissez, I'm sorry you're feeling like you're getting a raw deal, but it's true that this goes two ways--that women and men both can give others the shaft. It ain't a one-way street and it's important to me that we don't do man-bashing here just like we don't do women-bashing, either.

The last thing in the world that women or men alike often want to hear who're hooking up with partners who treat them badly--and it's the first question anyone who works with spouses/partners for whom this is a chronic, oingoing problem is compelled to ask, too--is "Who's making the choices to hook up with these folks?"

Sorry, I've worked for too many years in a crisis center not to know that's a dysfunctional tango that takes one person on one end to treat the other badly and, before that, a person who makes the choice to hook up with someone who'll treat him/her badly in the first place. When you can start looking at the initial choices you yourself make in that dance, that's when you'll be at the first step of being able to change the way that plays out in future relationships.

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I just don't understand why I can't find a man who will actually treat me right. When I'm in a relationship, I'm so goddamn ridiculously gracious and considerate and loving and caring and selfless and what the fuck do I get in return??? Zero appreciation, cheating, abuse, TYPICAL GUY BULL-FUCKING-SHIT.

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Allow me to quote from the infinite wisdom of my favorite comedian, Adam Carolla, who is a genius (and saves me from typing):

ADAM: Not all guys are dogs. About 30% of guys are dogs; you just happen to hook up with those guys. A lot of you ladies--as a matter of fact, coincidentally, the ones who claim all guys are dogs--are NOT interested in the non-dog guys. I mean, letâ??s face it: guys are horny. I'm not saying they're not. But, just sort of picture the guys at your work, the guys you know, the guys you're friends with. The majority of them are sort of normal guys, good guys who would be happy to meet somebody that they were attracted to and commit to a relationship, treat women right. Women--not so interested in that dude. And, until you get interested in that dude, there's gonna be trouble.

all im gonna say about that is "if you act like a doormat, don't be surprised when people walk all over you."

I can't believe that you think all men are interested in is sex!!lol
Grow some weed and then men will like you for your bud too.

Maybe you should switch teams. Wink wink, nudge nudge, say no more!

We could debate this forever, but the fact is "piece of shit syndrome" knows no gender. The world is a wonderful place, its the people in it, that often suck!