Help i have some sick plants with pics need advice.

Yup, get your pH down just a touch. And you really could use some calmag plus by the looks of things. The pale weird shit on the leaf edges looks a bit like a manifestation of Ca def.

Stinky cal mag in addition to the mico and the bloom? and which brand do you recomend?

Also in picture 4 in the first set can you tell its gender yet?

I'm having a hard time making out the relevant bits in the pic, but the positive is that I see no evidence of male parts, so that's good...

CalMAg is made by Botanicare. It's great stuff. Remember that even in the presence of Ca, you can still see Ca deficiencies if your pH is wrong!!