Cheating BF

If my man cheated on me while drunk, I'd never trust him drinking again... he'd have to quit entirely for me to MAYBE trust him, if that was his sorry ass excuse for betraying me. Good relationships are based on trust and good decisions. If you can't handle yourself in certain situations, don't put yourself there. Simple.

They cheat, they're gone.

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Originally Posted by psteve

Does that even matter?
Either you're in a committed relationship (which means being honest about your actions and not screwing other people), or you're just fucking around.
If you're ok with just fucking around with a dude who's OK with lying to you, then don't dump the scumbag.

P.S.
You get what you settle for.
If you deserve more than this fool is capable of giving, dump his ass and move on.

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EXACTLY! Why does it matter if hes sorry? He broke your trust, and relationships are about two things, love AND TRUST. He broke one, which means the other must be void.

I am a man, and if he cheated you where not doing something right if he needs to go on to another women. It would help if you posted the whole story and what lead up to this? You probably had a rocky relationship and things where never 'good'. But, hey he could just be an asshole and did it anyways :P

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Originally Posted by Justinrg

I am a man, and if he cheated you where not doing something right if he needs to go on to another women. It would help if you posted the whole story and what lead up to this? You probably had a rocky relationship and things where never 'good'. But, hey he could just be an asshole and did it anyways :P

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Hmmm.

I've put up with a lot of shit in my relationship but cheating is something I would never tolerate. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater..I've seen my best friends go thru relationships where their partner has cheated and nothing goes back to normal once they take ther significant other back..there is always trust issues and fighting. I've also seen my cheating friends continuously cheat on their partner..so from both perspectives..dump his sorry ass and find a REAL MAN!

p.s
I'm curious as to what the circumstances are here..

Dont dump him ... chop off his cock. That will stop him cheating.

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Originally Posted by dean0000

Dont dump him ... chop off his cock. That will stop him cheating.

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If thy penis offend thee, cut it off, eh?

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Originally Posted by Justinrg

I am a man, and if he cheated you where not doing something right if he needs to go on to another women. It would help if you posted the whole story and what lead up to this? You probably had a rocky relationship and things where never 'good'. But, hey he could just be an asshole and did it anyways :P

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Wow, you're saying it was her fault that he screwed around? That's pretty uncalled-for, given that we don't know the circumstances.

Did you read the last sentence of my post? Let me bold it for you

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Originally Posted by Justinrg

But, hey he could just be an asshole and did it anyways :P

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