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Dude, dont worry about it man.
Condoms are great protection, but they ruin the mood. There's nothing fun about putting on a love glove LOL.
Some blokes just dont like them so much it puts them off.
You aint a loser.
Have it opened up and ready to go, then have her to put it on as part of the fore play.
OTOH, vasectomy means never having to say your sorry.
If you're uncomfortable putting the condom on maybe you could practice when you're by yourself so it will be easer when you're with her.
condems are fucking shit man, i never want to see one again. your not alone, somethign about sliding a sheath of rubber over my dick absolutely blows. kills ANY sensation. honestly. girls get lucky i guess.
If you don't wear a condom just make sure you pull that shit out before you cum. That takes a lot of self-discipline. But hey, whatever works, right?
And don't worry, we all suffer from performance anxiety at one time or another. Nothing to be ashamed of. Take it slowly and give her what she wants.
performance anxiety sucks, makes u feel like shit.
I had the same problem when me and my GF first started having sex but i got over it pretty quickly
I'm lucky to not really have to deal w/ condoms, girlfriend is on the pill thank god. See if she can get the pill maybe?
That doesnt work. DO NOT relay on a pull out method for birth control. You need to be worried about STDs and stuff tooQuote:
Originally Posted by deadfan420
Pre-cum can get her preggoz too.
yes it can, so dont rely on the pull out method all the time. after you're a bit more experience, the pull out method is what you gotta do sometimes if you find yourself without a condom. but DON'T do it until you've had more experience!!! or else you could find yourself in a very undesirable situation. pregnancy scares are not fun, i had several scares with my ex fiance, and have taken the morning after pill twice i think, once when the condom broke, and once when we both got so into it that we both completely forgot he didnt have a condom on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Straight Illin
if you have sex with multiple partners in the future, condoms are a necessity against std's. no one wants one. so always be a responsible guy and have one on you!! :)
just relax and have fun, a bit part of the problem is probably that you're worried that you'll potentially be walked in on and therefore you're having performance anxiety. things will get better :)