That's a generalization you just made over an entire sex, which is the same thing that made you mad and inspired you to make this thread in the first place.
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That's a generalization you just made over an entire sex, which is the same thing that made you mad and inspired you to make this thread in the first place.
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Originally Posted by 420marijuana420
K+ 420 squared!!!
BFA has a point but not all guys are like that.
BFA did make a generalization about the entire gender, which isn't fair, it's true. Fortunately there are lots and lots of great men out there. What BFA was responding to, however--and you'll probably better understand her reaction after reading this, 420Marijuana420--was this particular post, including information above and below it.Quote:
Originally Posted by 420marijuana420
http://boards.cannabis.com/sexuality...ml#post1479936
Down below, he backpedals and says he was addressing a problem with the direction of mass culture. But in the previous thread, he was specicially identifying what he saw as a problem with women and their lack of "training" by men. You can try and sprinkle sociological sugar on it now, BA, but it still reflects really frightening attitudes, no matter how harmonious you profess your relationships with women are.
I treat women as I would men. I favor some more than others. Although I am probably a little over-all nicer to women. From males everywhere, i'm sorry.
I said that they should be trained properly when they are young (??They train them in the correct behavior toward the opposite sex, when they're young.?) - which means as children.Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I'm still waiting for someone to tell me that family relationships and marriages are better today than 50 years ago - it's not true and everybody knows it.
I don't like it when people have a chip on their shoulder - men or women. In my experience in the world of dating, a lot of my girlfriends had them, mostly due to being spoiled and listening to rhetorical, inaccurate bullshit from so-called feminist celebrities, educators and writers, both male and female. I also noticed these tendencies in general, not just with women I dated. This is not to say ALL women are like that.
Somebody named Larry Josephson pointed out, on a very left-leaning radio station in NYC some 30-odd years ago, that many of today's "liberated" women are trying to act like the way they think men USED to act, in an attempt to even things out. He was right then, and it's still true today.
Dont ever give a man the benefit of the doubt as far as how he was raised effecting how he treats a woman. Regardless of whether or not it was years of conditioning towards that twisted ideal that made him that way, the fact remains that he still RETAINS that point of view. And he does so out of ignorance. Fuck all that shit. Any dude that says most guys arent really like that is full of shit. And he's most likely one of those dudes. Even the guys that are all sweettalk to the ladies faces... Ive heard them saying different shit about the same people when its just him and his friends. But that seems to be how life goes.. talk shit about other people and fuck em over. Thats the human motto. Blah.
I cannot really begin to describe how much I love women, and the esteem I hold you ladies in. Needless to say, will all of you marry me??? :p
In the UK some of the women have got bigger cocks than the men! Myself excluded of course :D I'm just kidding....
Seriously though, as a guy who tries to respect women as much as possible, I have been treated like utter shit all my life by some of them over here. I don't know wny this is, you just need to cross the english channel and all of a sudden everyone, not just the women, turn into the most compassionate human beings! I am generalising of course there are plenty of kind souls here too.
From a scientific and Taoist point of, it is most certainly female values that rule the world. Men THINK they rule the world, but its just their stupidity and egoes that are destroying the world. Intelligence is a feminine attribute, I just wish some of the women in this country would think more like women and stop acting like power freaks. From a deep ecological stand point it is principles of co-operation, interconnectedness that binds the web of life and has sustained life on the planet for billions of years. It is not dominance or survival of the strongest as the neo-Darwinists wrongly assume.
Love and respct to all women, not all of us guys are chauvinist pigs. :hippy:
people who generalize one entire sex or the other annoy me. it would piss me off but ive heard it so many times from either side now i just let those who do the generalizing wallow in their own ignorance and pass on by.
There are still many antiquated notions out there about women (and gays and races and religions, yikes), and it is disheartening, though this country is far from the worst in that regard.
I feel your frustration bfa- I have had my share of experiences with jerks, and each time it saddens me.
But we are making progress, because of the strong women who won't be put down, and the lovely men (there are many on this site!) who won't tolerate sexism. After a few more generations, perhaps sexism ( and all the other isms!) will begin to fade away.
Living well is the best revenge!
Womens issues........NO MANS LAND here! Birdgirl knows that avoid this area like the plague.......I figure you ladies can do very well without our influence in here and there are some issues that I'd just as soon stay WAY away from.
As for the thread........men, women, whites, blacks, etc........you'll find assholes in each one of the divisions. Don't let the few speak for the rest.
I read some of the crap in sexuallity on how they told their bitch blah, blah.....must be real hard to talk back to a porno on the tube because they sure the hell don't have a real woman. I'd have to agree with Triumph the insult dog, "The last time that they saw female genitallia was during child birth".
The Sexuallity Forum has such potential for exchanges of ideas, gathering usefull information, etc... It's a shame what actually goes on in here. I would just LOVE to come in here and do some hardcore moderating BUT I don't think that would fly to well. LOL....never know what the future hold in store though.
A male dominant site + majority age group is under 20 = walking hard ons with big mouths and probably no action. Listen to the ladys boys.......that's if you EVER want a date.
Have a good one!:jointsmile: