Threesomes

Not in a serious relationship. I have had one before I got married or even met my husband and there is no way I could let another girl do anything with him. I would be so jealous and then everything would go wrong.

^^ yup before I was with John I had 3-somes and 4-somes but just the idea of another girl even THINKING about touching him makes me wanna load a gun. BUT he sure does like it when we talk about my past...haha

If you are in a serious relationship with a girl and bring in another girl, you will want to fuck that other girl again. That will cause problems.

Then jealousy will come in the picture. Generally a pain in the ass.

Me and my girl have had a threesome with another girl before (my girl likes the ladies too lol) and we both found it to be great, hell my girl was having sex with me like a rabbit for weeks afterwards. I guess it all depends on the couple; like if its just the guy wanting to do it (or the girl) then there will be problems but if its a mutual thing it really can be great fun. Crazy people need not try this because there will be problems lol.

prefer 1 on 1.

I'd do it in a heartbeat....more because it would be an incredible experience than anything.

Im sure that Ill get flammed by some of the more imature and insecure people on the forum but here is my threesome story. Let me start by saying that I am very happily and have been for 6 year's now. My wife and I have always had a pretty good sex life trying new things and that but I have always been kind of an in the closet freak so to speak. I am totally straight and have never had any kind of experiance with another man but had always had the fantasy of sharing my wife with another man. In a way it is like watching porn live and also being able to join in. Her and I had talked about it a few times and at first she was almost totally against it. But the more we talked the more she thought she would enjoy the idea. Now dont get me wrong if the oppertunity to have two women at once came along I would NEVER turn it down but she is not into that at all. So a few weeks after we had first talked about it her and I were hanging out at a friend of mines house who she had told me she was attracted to a while before. We were all drinking and puffing and some light petting and kissing between them started to happen. I didnt object at all, as I had already talked to both of them privatly about my thought's. Nothing more happened that night, but the following weekend we had some friends over to our house and I invited him also. The night went about the same with plently of drinkin and smokin goin on and just before he was ready to leave she decided to pick up where we had left off. So the three of us went to our bed room. The rest is pretty much right out of a hard core porn movie. I have to admit that I LOVED every second of it and having sex while someone watched and then watching her take it the way she likes so much was a huge turn on. He and I work togather daily and are still very good friends, sometimes we joke about it as our inside secret;) I have no regrets and cant wait for it to happen again:pimp: Peace

I am going to have to go with the majority, while in relationship skip it, while single live it up. I just personally feel that no matter how much one thinks it's a good idea that somewhere down the line something will always be off a little because of it. I dont condeme anyone who does either. I am soo in love with my wife and get horny thinking about her(also have homemovies :thumbsup: ) that I have no desire for more.

I dont really believe there is a pat answer, as we all have differnt views and wants and desires.
My lady and I met in a swinging atmosphere. She was single for many years and not looking for a relationship. I had been single for 4-5 years and not looking also.
At one time in my life I could have not even considered letting someone I care for have sex with another person. With my lady tho, I simply adore seeing her pleasured and pleaseing, whomever she is into, a man or a woman. It's not a thing we do every day nor every month, sometimes a year or more goes by then, something will present it's self, and if we're in the mood, cool! If not, it makes for some hot talking that night....and killer good session with her.
We are older tho, our minds and bodies are not clouded up with raging hormones like the young, and I think that is most of the jelously, untrusting, and worry comes from.

nothing but problems..