I think your beauty mark will survive just fine, Dro Princess, and I'm glad you didn't have a deep, bad cut. By the way, I don't find that bizarre at all. Just wanted to reassure you. I'd do the same thing if in the same hormonal situation. You impressed me with your ability to take that comment with such equanimity.
Slip, she doesn't shave to please anyone else or to avoid having her husband find it a turnoff. Her husband loves every cell on her body. She does it because she herself feels more comfortable without that hair.
Princess, try using conditioner or lotion or gel-based moisturizing shaving cream down below to alleviate those bumps. They're irritating. I'm still debating about having laser down there myself because I've now been shaving and or waxing for four solid years. But I keep wondering if someday I'm going to want my pubes back for any reason. So I keep putting off the permanent laser removal. The potential laser pain does't exactly have me rushing off to the hair-removal place, either. It didn't feel good when they did my legs. I figure it'll hurt even worse there on the "muffin," as I think BabyFaceAbortion once referred to i!!