i know how you feel. been there before. it will turn around. and making an effort like you are will help it happen quicker.
though i did have one rut situation i was in that did not change till i moved on.
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i know how you feel. been there before. it will turn around. and making an effort like you are will help it happen quicker.
though i did have one rut situation i was in that did not change till i moved on.
thank you mrs green jeans i am way to polite a guy to say the to a woman i dont know so im glad you did
Green don't you have my e-mail?
He's a great guy and once was, but the baby thing I think has thrown us off track and I need to find a way to get us back on the right road. This guy used to wrestle me across the house being the sexy man I wanted.
Puddle this is what I'm scared of since I am so young and sexual still, but I have built a life and a family with this man and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I worry that while he is great in every other aspect I may at some point find what I need. I have a bad habit of self sabotaging when things are going good and it creates alot of doubt about what is real and what I fabricate and over analyze.
your young you want sex it is natural. we do. and your only human.
i guess what i boils down to them is it not about talking dirty or a cop outfit.
you need to sit down and talk with him this weekend have someone watch your girl for an hour or 2 so you can talk and just talk. you need to tell him all of this. yeah its not gonna be a great time but get this all out the way let him know that you sabotage's things. you are crying out for help but shadowing the help you really need with sideshows of dressing up and dirty talk. you truly need to feel wanted and desired by him. anything you go out looking for is to full fill that need
You trying to say I'm not polite?Quote:
Originally Posted by puddlecruzier
LOLOL! I know I'm hit and miss on the polite thing.
Chrissy, no. I sent you one email, and you didn't respond, so it's not locked into my address book.
I am sleepy.
Pud nailed it, again.^
Good call Pud!
Can I call you Pud?
I'll probably regret putting this on the sex forum but
Edit quick!
Yes green you can call me Pud.
He knows about the sabotage thing, and you're right we have to talk. Luckily this weekend we scored some awsome motocross tickets and are looking to get away frome the babe. We really don't get away from her very much, she's very mommy attached and just now is doing better with babysitters. I know he wants me and desires me but it's so routine that I'm just waiting for it to take off but it never does. He kisses me and touches me and jokes with me and plays, and cuddles but then we just fart out when the good stuff comes.Quote:
Originally Posted by puddlecruzier