The Gateways of Hell Have Been Opened
You can't dump your girlfriend bro, that's not fair to her feelings. You're going to say, "my mom and dad found out we had sex, so, see ya". You're choosing your mommy over your girl. Haven't you released from your moms tit yet?
You're really going to hurt this girls feelings, mainly because you just had sex with her, and now you're going to dump her.
You have to detach from mommy sometime kiddo. You should respect your parents, but until they start respecting you, you shouldn't let them do this to you. Going through your phone snooping like a Nazi is NOT respect. Calling your girlfriend a whore is not respect. Calling her a whore and not you makes no sense. It takes 2 to have sex.
So I would keep having fun smoking as you're doing good in school, and stay with your girlfriend. Use protection, but remeber, there is also oral sex which can be better than intercourse itself. ;) with no pregnancies.
The Gateways of Hell Have Been Opened
Hey you have my icon :thumbsup:
The Gateways of Hell Have Been Opened
hahah who had this icon first?first off its almost like she fell a lot harder than I did for her so i'm not that attached to begin with. second off my parents were seriously about to fucking beat me about the sex thing and they hate her now, so even then we wouldn't have a relationship. I felt weird about the relationship from the beginning and I don't know why so I kinda wanted to get away from it. I just feel shitty for loosing my virginity to a relationship that wasn't even long lasting or wholesome. Its just too difficult to go back to her anyway even if my parents said yes. Its all fucked now so whatever. I just did what I pretty much saw fit, I beleive everything happens for a reason and this obviously happened for a reason. So like I said its almost like I wanted out of the relationship anyway, I just feel bad because she's already attached and its hard for her to let go. I just didn't have the same feelings. It was only a two week relationship anyway...
p.s. this conversation my parents and I had pretty much put me into tears for 20 minutes, not including the time afterwards. but what I find funny is how they care a lot more about her than the weed..
The Gateways of Hell Have Been Opened
A girl can give you STDs including AIDS, as well as unwanted grandkids, pot can't! I'm likely older than your parents, but not as conservative! Are you using protection (a condom)? Doesn't matter if she's on the pill, use a condom! Getting stuck with child support for the next 18 or so years is NOT how you want your life to go!
As for the pot use, print this up! Current and former marijuana use: preliminary findings of a longitudinal study of effects on IQ in young adults -- Fried et al. 166 (7): 887 -- Canadian Medical Association Journal
Basically, it says that MODERATE pot use makes you smarter! (Not so for heavy pot use). So convince your parents that you use it only occasionally, and you're home free on this point!
The Gateways of Hell Have Been Opened
personally i reckon its none of your parents business if your having sex with your girlfriend.... would they rather you have sex with total strangers you've only just met? atleast you've been with this girl for a while and know her.