Originally Posted by birdgirl73
You guys who think swallowing is mandatory will mellow out on that as you get older, I suspect. In time, if you're going at love-making experience with a healthy attitude that celebrates mutual enjoyment, I hope you'll come to regard all parts of the act as something you both should enjoy. If she doesn't like the taste of semen, she's allowed not to like that taste, just like she's allowed not to like other tastes or smells or whatever. You're allowed not to like the taste of certain foods, right? Or certain drinks? Same thing here. Just as she has the right to say yes or no to you entering her body during intercourse, she also has the right to say yes or no to swallowing. It's also perfectly OK if you don't like the way she tastes, just like you have the right to say no to anal penetration with toys or fingers. Preferences run both ways, you know, and y'all are intelligent enough to acknowledge that people's preferences don't always have to coincide.
If you're fortunate enough to have a girl who swallows, count yourself lucky. If you're not, it seems to me you're still darn lucky to be getting oral sex. But remember, if you're allowed to prefer certain things over others, then she is, too. The bottom-line truth is that any feelings of rejection you may feel about her not swallowing are about insecurities or unrealistic expectations on your end, not actually about her rejecting you.
