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Look I??m sorry but this is bull shit. Beach Guy you can bitch at me if you like. Sounds to me like the last thing she needs is someone to stroke her hair and tell her everything going to be alright. From everything she has said here it sounds like her husband has every right to think of her as an unfit mother. No mother would run out on their kids without a damn good reason. The only thing I have heard thus far is ??Oh I??m so unhappy and my husband is a big meanie? SO FUCKING WHAT. You??re an adult bitch. Suck it up.
And if you could take care of yourself you wouldn??t be on here looking for someone to do it for you, pissing and moaning about how unfair life has been to you. Do you have any idea how selfish you are being. ME ME ME. What about your KIDS KIDS KIDS.
This is where everyone has me wrong. I still have a live-in ex-g/f, and I'm not running away. So, she can't come here.
Is she hot beachguy? Post her pic if she sent you 1.
Look girl, just go. Your family obviously doesn't want you. I would take beachguy up on his offer, if I were you, as long as you can prove you can pay for your own bus ticket and pay for your share of the rent.
Oh, I see you reneged.
i'm thinking she just had a rough night... don't be too hard on her.
i'm only guessing- but she was obviously upset about something going on in her life and i think she may have had a few too many drinks. then she said/did some stuff she didn't mean. who hasn't done that before?
if i'm wrong please seek counseling... if not for you then for your kids sake.
Sophia
If you can even consider walking out on your children into the arms of some random stranger from a message board that you think is gonna rescue you from your life??. then you need help bigtime ?? and not from anyone on here.
Go talk to someone more qualified, like a councellor, marriage guidance, citizens advice bureau??..ANYONE?..before you do something as damaging as walking out on your babies. Have you any idea how that will affect their lives??????
Do you really have that little self worth?
Are you trying to prove your husband right?
Because right now, offering yourself up to all and sundry?you??re not exactly painting a pretty picture here.
I feel for your children, I fear for them too and for you.
Woman, you need to COP DA FUCK ONTO YOURSELF before you get your foolish arse into anymore trouble.
No one needs to rescue you
Only YOU can decide what you can live with, and without.
Make the changes in your life.
If you??re not happy look at the reasons.
If it??s your marriage, decide whether you can save it or not.
Take things one step at a time.
You don??t have the luxury of throwing your shit into a bag and walking ?? that??s what being an adult is about ?? you gave up that option when you had children. You owe it to them to do the best you can. Wandering the www looking for ??someone to save you?? will not solve your problems.
I'm hoping you were at a real low point when you wrote this and you're gonna reread this thread and go, "wtf was I thinking?". I wish you and your family the best. Please think long and hard before you do something you??ll possibly regret for the rest of your life.
Lulu
GO DOWN WEINER!
I'm confused. Sophia's last post in this thread was at about 3, - three hours after she posted this in another thread;
"I left, and met the man who is now my husband. I love him...we've been together for 13 years...married for 8 now...and have two totally gorgeous yet mischevious sons...and although we fight about each others' habits and shit we cannot seem to live without one another..."
Never mind the fact that she started this thread at nearly two. So what the hell happened in the two hours between not being able to live without your husband, and being "trapped in a loveless marriage with a man who doesn't understand me".
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Originally Posted by Lulu
I second that.^^^...
couldnt have said it better...:thumbsup:
Anybody else smell that?
Maybe it's just me, but this all seems way too elaborate. All in one night?