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The "Going Downstairs" thread prompted me to ask you all this question. How many guys have gotten head without 'returning the favor'?
My guess is that there will be more guys who have gotten head without ever having gone down on a girl, than guys who have done both. It will probably be close, but let's see....
i am all in favor of returning the favor.
in fact, sometimes i like giving more than receiving.
Hmmmm... I've had sex with a lot of women I've had little to no attraction to and with them I almost never go down of them even if they give me a bj... But if I'm really into a girl, I go down on her much more then I let her go down on me...
I guess I have to be strongly attracted to her and she has to be 'clean' down there... I know some guys (from what ex-gfs told me) are reeky down there but I take TWO showers (atleast) every day and I only smell of soap and cool water... So I dont think it is unfair to want a girl who is also 'clean' (within reason.. Pussy never smells like roses... but when it has that sweaty 'armpit' odor, aint no fucking way my mouth is going there).
^i think that's awesome that you acknowledge guys don't always smell so great down there as well. so many guys bitch about girls smelling fishy (which i am not defending), but nothing is never mentioned about sweaty ball smell, for example. lol.
i have all of them, except the neither of them selection... there was one girl, that i just went down on... another girl that i used to be able to get to give me blow jobs, and then when her turn came around, i said i was tired... and then of corse... there was her giving me head... and me eating her pussy out..
(the few girls that ive eaten out, have said i was the best... so that should tell all the ladys here something... haha... just felt like saying that... cause im bored...)
im the only 1 so far that just got head lol...umm well the girl usually just goes down on me first so i never bother to return the favor lol...this one time i actually told the girl b4 she gave me head, i wasnt touching her and she still gave me head lol
^haha the girl giving u head first pretty much guarentees it won't lead to more (if sex is the main course); cause guys get so riled up from head that as soon as the girl is done- BAM enter the penis. lol. i 'make' my bf go down on me first, cause that guarentees my satisfaction, plus i am always more than willing to return the favor.
i ate out my gf about 2 months ago for the first time cause it was her birthday (and i was broke). now pretty much whenever were alone we 69. :dance:
always return the favor and there will be more blowjobs to Follow.
kinda hard to answer without more choices... i have recieved from girls i haven't give to, and i've given to girls and recieved from (never given and not recieved, have no problem with it lol.. it's just never happened) there should be more options (to be more specific)
I just said I don't go there,,,I don't have a girlfriend either,,,hmmm...
I've done both...
If you give a little you can take a little
My poll was kinda meant for have you "ever", not with certain gfs. But feel free to elaborate in ur posts instead of the poll.... here's a question- what determines whether u go down on a girl or not?
i don't like getting eaten out. I don't know why, I just don't; I'd rather be fingered. I give my boyfriend head when I feel like it (which is often enough) but he gets about 52 handjobs a day until we get horny enough to fuck. He basically begs me to let him eat me out though, he loves it. He's strange but I love him haha. If he gives though, I give back.
This is not a racist reply!!!
I hear that black people are more inclined to go there... What bought this up is I remember a pic of BFA's bf and he is black and loves poon... is this a myth like all black people have big dicks???
i have never heard of that before...
Hahaha, I don't know if that's true but my man can definitly qualify for the 'big dick' myth. <33 I've had white as rice boyfriends though, that loved the poon too. I think some men WORSHIP the twat and some men ABUSE it.
I've been with women who for one reason or another had twats that were too ugly to go sticking my face into! Some women don't trim and don't realize that all that hair can hold some pretty fucking horrendous odors! When I was in high school I generally got head without eating the girl out. When you think about it giving head is easy. You can blow a guy almost anywhere with minimal exposure (just whip it out) but to eat pussy the girl has to be undressed from the waist down, flat on her back and in a mostly comfortable environment. I eventually got pretty good at "eating at the Y" and married a girl that has a beautiful twat she keeps impeccably trimmed!
I agree that giving head is usually more convenient in a public place, but i would definitely not agree that giving head is easier. to eat pussy, guys just need to lay down, plant their face down there, and move their tongue around. giving good head is a workout!!!! sore jaws are definitely common, along with tired wrists, and it sometimes even gets kinda tough to breathe when u've got a dick in your mouth for long periods of time.
oh what? you think our jaws don't get sore down there?.... HAH! shows how much you know... not to mention that little stringy thhing underneath your tounge gets sore as hell like it's been cut after a good eatin'...Quote:
Originally Posted by dutch.lover
"HAH! shows how much you know"... I thought that was a little harsh but I will let it go. My bf has never ever complained about a sore tongue or jaw, and I just asked him now and he said again that his tongue and jaw never get sore. Maybe you just like to flick it around a little more than most? IDK, lol. Anyways, I guess we will never know what the opposite sex has to go thru unless we are in their position.... maybe I should try eating a girl out and see what it's like.... hehehe just kidding....
lol go ahead, i'm sure your bf won't mind.... oh yeah, i'm not the first person to say what i did.. i actually had no idea what 'they' were talking about until, i actually went down on a girl.. then i knew what they were talking about.. your bf is just lucky lol... i love to give a girl pleasure (actually never did until i got married) that that crap just sucks...Quote:
Originally Posted by dutch.lover
^yeah that's the rub isn't it. what brings them pleasure is sometimes kinda awkward/uncomfortable/inconvenient for us. especially when you can tell your partner is getting close, and your jaw is about to fall off, and you want nothing but to stop, but you know you have to keep going.... *sigh*
lol my wife doesn't.. if it's hurting her, i don't expect her to keep going... she just better atleast pick up some lube and use her hands to finish with... lolQuote:
Originally Posted by dutch.lover
Going down on a clean girl can be great but....Never after intercourse! Changes the odor and thickness of her juices. Having said that though, pulling out in the middle of sex to have her give a little head before returning to intercourse can be great!!!
i personally wouldn't want to be given oral after intercourse either. me and my bf don't use condoms, so it definitely is messy down there afterwards and like you said, the consistancy of the fluid down there changes. also, after intercourse my clit is often almost numb from all the pounding and friction so switching to a gentler stimulation (like the tongue) doesn't really do anything. i can't really feel it.
I personally cannot resist the musk of sweet pussy, there is nothing better! unless there is a strain of pot that has the same odor, actually, that might be a little weird,. any way, i don't understand how a guy won't give a person that he supposedly cares enough about enough to stick his dick into, the pleasure of head. i can get my gf off faster, harder, and more frequently when i give her head than when i FU:pimp:K her. the only excuse is maybe a stinky box, but man, a little hygene goes a long way. infact, i like pussy so much, i even enjoy getting my gf off more than i enjoy her getting me off. i love setting a record, then busting through it a few days later. and as for the mid-sex thing, an altoid goes a long way, minty fresh, and feels kinda like vics vap-o-rub... a two for one! just don't go for the dirty sherman, unless your in the shower...
Yup, sounds like me when I was younger!!! Enjoy it! Best times of your life man, and it dont last forever.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hagbard Celiene
consult you doctor if you have an exection that lasts longer than four hours...
I've eaten pussy, I've sucked dick. Both hurts after a while, or hurts if you're doing an especially good job. I think girls have it harder in different ways, (think of how it feels to hold your mouth open at the dentist for an extremely long time, then add in sucking, licking, massaging, and jerking) and guys have it hard as well, because well..us women are known to take a little while and there's a lot of mouth action as well.
NO ONE should HAVE to continue going but it's nice if you do :D
anyway, carry on.
as far as I'm concerned you can tape the holes shut,,,LOLz,,,I'm not Gay,,,LOLz... What I mean is I just need your mouth and a pair of bouncies,,,anything below that your on your own...
LOL... i was planning sumthin like that cuz i was broke too... ended up jus not gettin her anything, actually havent even see her in like a week, her b-day was new years... lol... :rastasmoke:Quote:
Originally Posted by smoke it
the first girl that i ever got head from really wanted me to return the favor so i did.. and now a days its whatever.. if they want me to i will..
my bf actually went down on me before i went down on him. that's pretty rare i think...but i definitely liked it.
ok, so while were on the topic, my gf is constantly worried she cant give good head cause of a gag reflex, is there anything i can say to her to convince her that it isn't neccessary? or perhaps a gag reflex suppressant?
tell her to poke the little dangly thing in the back of her throat everyday for a few weeks. that should get rid of the gag reflex.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hagbard Celiene
although, somemmight consider her a bullemic(sp?) if shes found doing it.
I love eating out girls and they keep coming back for more :pimp:
Try having her use chloraseptic before hand on the back of her throat... It helps numb the gag reflex. Also, if she has a sensitive gag reflex you can train yourself to repress it by practicing stimulating the back of your tongue with a toothbrush... It can take a few weeks but you should be able to get that gag reflex taken care of. Though some guys like it when they make a girl gag and puke during a b/j. :jointsmile:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hagbard Celiene
ive got head many times withought licking out, ive only ever licked out my current gf because i was her first so i dont mind it, i would probably only lick out a virgin if i wasnt there first.
i dont like licking out girls but i love getting head.
Gag reflexes are there for a reason. I doubt any health or sex professional would recommend a woman to use this before giving a BJ. She can learn to relax her throat, so the gag reflex isn't stimulated when she gives you head. I personally haven't achieved this unfortunately, but it is possible. Have her check out this website http://www.allsexguide.com/oral_sex_male.htm It has a whole section on deep throating. Howver, if she is just worried that you won't like it as much if she can't deep throat- have her use a hand on your penis sort of like an extention of her mouth (if she doesn't do this already). It feels great....or so I hear.Quote:
Originally Posted by someuser