Sex, This will open your eyes

When it comes to sex if you can move her on:

an Instinctive level,
an Emotional level,
and a Phycological level,

It makes a world of difference than just going through the motions alone.

She has to see you as sexually valuable, (you control that).
She has to be in the right state of mind, (you help her get there).
She has to be in the right environment, (The easiest thing for you to do).

You can GAIN or LOSE sexual value. In other words, you can increase and decrease (intentionally or unintentionally) your ability to sexually inspire women. Regardless of looks, certain guys will be able to sexually inspire women much better than most guys. THEY DO THE RIGHT THINGS.

If your partner is not turned on properly SHE IS NOT HAVING SEX.

Never, ever GUILT or PRESSURE a woman into sex. Consider yourself warned.
guilt induced tactics-sexual begging or complaining annoys her deep down. If she does have sex it will be worse with each passing minute.

She may go along with this, even for some time but it can SECRETLY eat at woman and they will NEVER TELL YOU WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.

She will never consider this really good sex even though you might be satisfied.

Some women can go years in a relationship and never have really good sex in the way she considers good sex to be. Some men can go a year or more and not have sex at all in a relationship, not so easy to walk when your in a LTR or married, now there is more at stake.

It is no mystery why "good wives"/girl friends cheat! Some husbands/boyfriends actually have the balls to get mad at this woman when she finally carries it out to the third stage.

He has no right to be pissed at her when she finally decides to experience her natural urges to have sex...........(with another man). A mans worst fear.

Dont fool yourself into thinking that just because she has a diamond ring on her finger and there was an expensive wedding that she wont start looking at other men eventually who push those sexual buttons.

Women can be extremely loyal, they tend to be by nature, but when she cheats, she will justify it. Every single woman has a "speach" about how wrong they think cheating is and how they cant understand how other women cheat.

This is why a woman in a relationship can LOVE you, be AROUSED, while YOUR AROUSED and wish that you would just go take care of your own needs.

Doesnt make sense does it?

This is also the basis for sexual rejection in a relationship and a cause of resentment.

A guy that gets sexually rejected 3 times or so will most likely will quit trying when he didnt understand the proper approach.

Much like a woman who gets emotionally rejected 3 times or so when she just wants to talk. They are different, yet on equivelent levels of importance to each.

You see how this one thing can kill a relationship? This doesnt require 4 months of expensive marriage consuling to resolve or arguing about unrelated things. That is a recipe for disaster anyway by spilling negatives that hide the real problem. Spilling negatives will doom the relationship.

Some men might come to the conclusion that women just dont like sex as much as men or she has a libido problem. Wrong.

Women love sex just as much as men do but the APPROACH is KEY.


I will change the topic here.
Concerning foreplay for example.

Women's conversation styles are alot like the way they enjoy foreplay.

Men tend to talk OBJECTIVELY, (make points), women tend to talk SUBJECTIVELY, (talk about different subjects and circle around not reaching a point).

The way she likes foreplay is the same as her conversation style, for most, to circle around her entire body, touching, taking your time and NOT to get to the point right away. Remember erogenous zones.

The lightest touch is best, long glides that break and pick up elsewhere with light kissing on her body. Stay away from the obvious areas, (vagina), as you are building the excitement through teasing.

A womans skin is 3 times more sensitive than a mans and this is important to remember about foreplay.

When it comes to oral sex it cant be fair to ask a woman to do something on you that you wouldnt do in return. A lot of women cant orgasm on penetration alone. Its better to spend time in the foreplay/oral sex department before moving ahead with sex.

A good thing to try is to use a Hall's mentholyptus, crunch it up in your mouth and then spread that on her vulva, lips and clitoris with the tongue, she'll like the menthol sensation at the same time. Since most of her nerve endings are on the outside not the inside it makes sense to spend a good deal of time on the outside first.

Theres alot more to be said on this topic of building your sexual value and stimulating her on the three levels.


Good day Gentlemen.

You are just wierd man, you talk like you are just so fucking dumb and shit man it gets on my fucking nerves

who asked you? Seriously...

interesting... :stoned:

the halls thing sounds crazy.gonna try that

Halls mentholyptus, the black pack to be exact.

the question here is, what are "the right things"?

Ill continue to throw up threads to tell you. A lot was presented here as far as the right things/wrong things. Review past 8 threads as well, "Dating"

Just take an objective look and decide for yourself. Some of this goes against the grain of what you might have been taught or misled to believe or by exposing the grey areas which add to confusion.

When you dont understand something its easy to get frustrated which leads to anger, or withdrawl.

Ill protect your heart and help you succeed. Or you can say Ganjasaurus your full of crap and throw all this out the window.

I want to hear more of this :stoned:

i agree with a lot of points made. but youre making it sound as if women are fickle, impossible to please, and overly conplex. like sex for them is a jigsaw puzzle that the woman is incapable of putting together on her own. i think that women should first learn how to please themselves and learn to be proud of thier sexuality befoer they ask a man to do it for them. and often the double standard prevents and scares women from exploring sex, thier bodies, thier wants, and thier senses. remember that womena re highly sexual creatures too, and that there are so many different types of sex in thier minds.

I agree with the above post. I am a girl and I don't feel anything at all like your patronization.

Who made you an expert? Because they were obviously wrong.

Well if Im wrong you write the next thread on the subject and make it right.

And while your writing have your Dad make you some cookies and milk.

I will. Cookies and milk sounds excellent.

this thread sucks

Hey Rachel, I like cookies and milk too. And I know how too make love to a woman without the use of a textbook. You coming over? Bring the cookies, I've got the milk. x x x x x

hey ganjasaurusrex...


if you know all of this then why are you typing huge threads on the internet instead of out getting lucky with pornstars in a hot tub?

I couldn't get my eyes open enough to read that thing.

I like the piece you wrote Ganjasaurusex. Well said. It all depends on what your women is into. Maybe, she likes it slow, fast or rough. Those are the signs you have 2 pick up on and not just go for gold.

GL

Also:

When you are lying in bed with a woman, whistle softly, click your tongue three times (keep the timing in between each click constant! This is important, it tells the woman you are a stable person), and finally genty run your hand down an extra sensitive area just right of the solar plexus.

This is like a secret code that if you use I can offer you a 100% get laid success.

Or just be yourself and don't try and choreograph a relationship based on stuff you read on the internet. Women are perceptive, trying too hard usually gets noticed.

"Just be Yourself", The stock answer you give someone when you dont have a clue.
And when it doesnt work out................."I guess it wasnt meant to be", the stock answer when "Just be yourself" doesnt work for the person you gave it to. Brilliant.

Ill write a page on "just be yourself". I think women invented this line and brainwashed men with it to keep themselves more dominate in relationships.

Guys avoid the "Just be yourself" AT ALL COSTS.

Daisy Chain are you a man or a woman? If your a man just put on a dress grow your hair long and drop kick the entire male gender in the balls all at once.

"Just be yourself" why dont you tell men to change their name to "Doormat".

-laughs- Only doormat if you natural personality style is doormat. If that is your natural style, maybe its time for a bit of a change?

Don't be yourself and put on some elaborate bullshit routine of special touching and magic words, it might get you somewhere, but only because the girl is flattered you care enough to be someone completely different for her.

You're right about one thing though, just being yourself won't get you all the chicks you could ever want. Especially if yourself is someone that isn't societally perfect. But, the chicks you have to fake it for, you don't really want in the long run. You can't spend your whole life faking it for someone who doesn't like the real you, eventually you have to end the relationship that doesn't have YOU in it, but a character you created. And that's a really painful ordeal in my experience, generally not worth it unless you were just in it for a lay and a leave.

If you just want to fuck some girls at night clubs, by all means, don't be yourself. No girl wants to know they're the disposable night club one night stand that they are. Your elaborate faking real routines will probably confuse them into believing the possibility that they are really special to you, long enough to get you laid anyway.

maybe if more guys listend to women they would know how to pleas them its not fuckin rocket science...i can please my woman without the help of some text book you know why cuz i listen to her...listen to her in bed she wont tel you directly what she wants cuz if she has to you should be a monk or something...but listen to her moans is she moans then keep doing it look at her face her facial expressions will tell you alot...but nothing will tell you more than her eyes i can tell everything about a woman by her eyes just ask her....im sure she will chime in sometime on this topic...if not i will make her...i am in no way gods gift to women i still have alot to learn but i know alot most of my friends are women and all you have to do guys is listen!

Who are you to give advice "5 minute man"

-laughs- Good comeback.

Retsiger knows how to make love without text.

He'll probably wash and wax your car, clean your apartment, and then buy you flowers and tell you he loves you.

Endo, casual sex is one thing, relationship sex is entirely different.

But I respect your opinion you bring up good points on eyes. Bottom line her actions and avoid her "changing colors".

If you dont know how a woman tests you, uses womanese, changes colors and many more things you arent going to last in a relationship.

Listening to what women want from you can get you in trouble sometimes. They can run a confusion game on you on purpose and you wont know which end is up.

so listen, sure, be cautious, bottom line actions............always.

no my points apply to casual and relationships...and women arent that confusing, most men dont understand them thats why they say they are confusing

Are women REALLY that evil and hard to figure out?

I don't think i'm insanely confusing or do subliminal things..

we're not jigsaw puzzles, fellas.

hey baby face, you don't think your signature on MSn is manipulative and subliminal..

?

I love you and your baby face

or bizzle saying "only men who are good at eating pussy like eating pussy, the guys who are bad at eating pussy don't like it" .. (paraphrased)

now that's fucking manipulative..

hahah

i love you - very very very manipulative

no babe women arent that confusing just some ppl have trouble understanding you all they over complicate women...i just look into your eyes and i know everything

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Originally Posted by Garden Knowm

or bizzle saying "only men who are good at eating pussy like eating pussy, the guys who are bad at eating pussy don't like it" .. (paraphrased)

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i love to lick pussy

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Originally Posted by endo..jay

i just look into your eyes and i know everything

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It kind of scares me lol


What's my MSN sig?

Women are by no means "evil".

"In all my 30 years of research on the human female I still have yet to find out what women want"-------Sigmund Freud.

We're almost there sig.

We just need to figure out how to get the male ego to follow directions and listen to advice on approaching romantic relationships! lol

maybe freud got nowhere cuz he was loking at women as 'research' women arent lab rats they are human just like us they just have a different way of looking at things and once you can find that you are set

agreed.

hey maybe we should ask a woman.

thats true no one knows the female psyche better than a woman

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A womans skin is 3 times more sensitive than a mans and this is important to remember about foreplay.

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enough said, this guy has read too many porn mags if he honestly believes this shit

yea that is complete bs

its not the whole skin its areas that have more nerve endings not the whole body ill give him that

Totally disagreed with both of you on that> lol

well lets direct that to the women

women is it tru about youer skin being 3x more sensitive?