My parents suspect me of smoking pot, my Dad smokes pot quite frequently, and my Mom knows he does. Should I openly tell them?
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My parents suspect me of smoking pot, my Dad smokes pot quite frequently, and my Mom knows he does. Should I openly tell them?
depends...how old are you? if your under 16 i wouldnt cause they ll think your gettin into shit to fast and youll start doin harder drugs if there anything like most parents...not mine luckily!
i'm 15 and they know i'm not an idiot
my dad is the deepest thinking person i've ever known...and he's been teaching me to be that way since i was like 6. he really doesn't want me to smoke weed, though. :( i don't know why. it's like he hates being a stoner.
It all depends on how you think they'll react. If you think they might try to make you quit or something, don't do it. Try to look at how they're handling the suspicion. Are they afraid of the idea of you smoking pot or do they not really make a big deal out of it?
i'm not sure if they really suspect me or not. i don't know! i really don't! that's why i need your help!
Just tell them that you smoke weed to get past the challenges of up-comming teenage hood and it just gets your by, and if they can't handle it tough shit.I only recomend that if your just sick of the bull shit and wanna get it off your back.What are they ganna do ground you? HAH.
they could cut off my money...then no weed!
Do they give you lunch money? Just buy weed with that and ask friends for lunch money, worked for me all last year.
Tell them... but after you move out.
Tell your dad, not your mom.
Don't tell them at all. If they ask tell them the truth. Once they get all pissed off just tell them they didn't fail you as parents because they did care and they did try.
Just don't take advice from someone who listens to I See Pee, then you'll be ok.
That's a good idea. If you do decide to come out to your parents, first tell your dad and let him tell your mom if he wants. Really, how angry could he get, being a stoner himself?Quote:
Originally Posted by Drugman Joe
Hahahahahaa, I See Pee. That made me laugh.Quote:
Originally Posted by Void
hahha Void!!!!
Dude, dont openly tell them "i smoke pot" but talk about it to your dad and how people at school smoke all the time, and ask him something like, what if i smoked pot?
show them ur essay, then based on their response tell them
If thats what passes as humour these days its a sad time.
It is a sad time. okay!?
I would tell your Dad and then ask him if you should tell your Mom too.
they've both read my essay...what do you think aroused the suspicion? that and the way i lock the door to my room late at night once in awhlie...
their response:"well written, but you sound like a pothead"
i didn't deny or confirm it so...
Tell your dad if your going to tell anyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
okay...do i tell him face to face when we're alone or over the net while he's at work and i'm in school? he can be a pirrty angry person...believe me. i shudder to think what he'd be like without the ganja :(
Hmm.. on second thought, maybe you shouldn't. Just don't lie if they ask you. And always in person, never over the phone or net. Especially while he's at work.. are you crazy?
fuck i hate doing big things in person...i like how the net can take some of the edge off
yeah but it would be better if you do it in person. Does your dad let you drink because if he does I would tell him I'm going out to a party and there will be drinking there and maybe some pot and them ask him if it would be ok if you tried a little because your curious, well thats what I would do anyway.
no he doesn't want me drinking. alcoholism runs in my mom's side of the family pretty deep in the blood. it's rare for a male of that family to live past 60 to tell the truth...
and he's very hypocrital..."do as i say, not as i do"
i got one thing to say to that, my dad told my mom that ive tried smoking weed befor, AND THEY ARE DEVORCED AND HARDLY TALK TO EACH OTHERQuote:
Originally Posted by Drugman Joe
im also 15 so i know how u feel. my dad also smokes alot of pot but my mom is very against it.. the only difference is that my parents are divorced, and dont talk alot. i think just wait until you get caught, unless they start making it obvious that theyre suspicious like looking at your eyes when u get home or asking alot of questions about where u were and that kinda shit. and when u do tell them , let them know that its just on weekends with friends and ud never think of any other drug. worked for me goodluck
i told my mom she really dont care just as long as im safe
Absolutely tell him face to face. That will make him respect you more. Here's what I would say if I were in your shoes, "Dad, I have something to tell you. I've been smoking Marijuana for the last <x> days/weeks/months/years. I know that it is nothing to be ashamed of because you do it, but I felt that I should tell you about it, because I respect you enough to not keep things from you. I hope that you will show me the respect that I have given you, and continue to allow me to smoke this herb. As I have shown of late, I can still smoke marijuana and be a successful teenager in school and such."
If you say that, he'll probably let you smoke still, and you'll have a better, stronger relationship with your father. Let us know how it goes.
unless they ask i wouldnt say anything. they may already know, you confirming it Could just set off. good luck!!
oh...kay... i'm gonna tell him the way hempmasta said. i just need to get up the strength to do it because it's scary...
also, i had a crazy idea. i've been wanting to grow my own shit, but i haven't because i don't have enough supplies and anywhere i tried to grow they'd find out. if they know i blaze...maybe i could get my dad to let me grow for him and his buddies (and me :D )
Smoking weed is a taboo subject with my dad and me. :) He's caught me doing it before, and I've caught him. We don't really talk about it. But we can tell when each other his high. He doesn't want me doing it, but doesn't enforce it, because I know he's doing it. Oh well... my mom has no clue because she is living with my step dad in S. Carolina. I'm pretty sure she'd flip her shit.I remember back when I was younger, around 8 or 9, every time one of those anti-drug commercials came up she would always have a talk about drugs with me. Hehe, good thing I don't live with her. And another good reason I don't live with her, is they live out in the middle of nowhere.
i have caught my dad smoking weed more than once, but he's never caught me. mostly because back in january before i quit i always did it away from my house and at my friends' houses. but now those friends are gone and i smoke here (just started blazin again last week) so yeah i think it'd be a lot less stress on me if i didn't have to worry about them
once u tell them let us know how it went.
i dont know...
Dude I just have some advice. I went all out and told my parents thinking they would be cool about it because I know they toke it now and then but I was soooo wrong. They now bother me about drugs at least once a day, blame everything that happens on drugs (i.e. a few bad test grades, being tired, not doing chores), and worst of all they stole my stash of 3/4 a ounce and a $15 pipe.
P.S. my real parents where huge druggies who got way to deep and ended up in jail so this is probably why they flipped and are still flipping.
^^ yea man, that really sucks, atleast you had teh balls to tell them, im sure that once you move out or whatever, theyll tell you theyre proud that u told them and blah blah.