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This is a thread to talk about the relationships that you got going on right now...whether good or bad...married or not...
Relationships with human beings are not easy...it does take a lot of work...
I will post my drama in a little bit..haha..not really drama..just life I guess...
Sometimes now, I wonder if being single is harder than being married...I know one thing for sure..I get way less sleep:)
um i think i've done enough of that! so ill spare you all lol.
good idea for a thread though
your exempt...hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420
I have many relationships going on right now. However... they are of the platonic nature.
No girlfriends for Grazi :(
Maybe one day... or maybe in the next life.. who knows..
im a soon to be single grazil lol just putting it out there
OK...HEAR GOES...
(short version)
I meet joanne 19years ago on august 20..i fancied her from afar,for a few years she was hot,,even hotter now..anyways we are married now for 11years,and seperated for a year a few years ago,,a lot of outside preassure and me being stupit,was the main cause...
Since we went tru some many good years,we were bound to hit a few rocky ones,and we did...but at the end of the day i love her,and her me,,we are a great team,when we communicate,and after 19years communication is the key..
WE were also lucky enough to have kids,and that in itself is hard work raising 3boys,but worth every second of it,,
MY parents were married for 47years,befor my dad passed away,they were a great set of parents and they taught me some good values to carry into my relationship,with my best friend and wife jo..
it takes work to keep a relationship going,,if you care enough about the other person it dose not seem like work at all..and it makes waking up beside that person all the more special...:) :hippy:
Hehe well you are more than welcome to move to Columbus, but the thing is, Ive got my mind set on moving to Asia for a good many years, so I dont want to hurt anybody when its time to go, thats why Ive been avoiding a relationship. Ive had a couple girls tell me they would go with me, but I also may very well end up participating in rope fights in Burma, which are fight to the death. I dont want a girlfriend to see me kill another man. Or, should I meet my match, I dont want her to have to see me get killed in a quite brutal manner.Quote:
Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420
EDIT: Just wanted to add that you seem like the type of girl that I would date, though, so I might end up fuckin myself over if we were to meet lol. Im still down though :p
Good one Grazi.Quote:
Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
Would you consider your love affair with Mary more of a platonic, romantic, or agape nature?
i just moved into Philly so your welcome to come stay at my place anytimeQuote:
Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
and its awsome you plan on going to Asia, especially Thailand it's in my top 3 countries to go to, most amazing food, and the people I've heard are unbelivably nice --- but maybe not the ones that your going to meet while they try and kick your ass
hmmm you should make a poll threadQuote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
idk about grazil here but i think me and sweet mary jane have a sort of friends with benifits type of relationship. she makes me horny sometimes, but for the most part she is there to make me happy wen im sad, and she makes me laugh when im bored.
oh and I know I'm not the brightest color on the palet but what does 'agape nature' mean?
I'm a 19 yr old Sophomore in college. My gf and I have been going on since the day before highschool started. She doesn't smoke, but doesn't care that I do. It's all good though, more bud for me.
I'm going to be 22 next month..been with my boyfriend since I was 19 years old...friends with him since I was 17 years old..
Hes my best friend ever...and we just moved into a sweet 3 bedroom house..we have 2 dogs and a turtle..
I don't know what I'd do without him. Sure we've had our rough spots, but we always know whatever happens we will work through it, and never does the thought occur to us to break up. We know we have something good, and I feel the longer we are together the better our relationship gets.
I think it takes time to get to know someone, we are all very different, and in order to make something work between two people you have to learn how to do that. Nothing is going to be perfect, a relationship can be very hard..but so can anything. Just gotta work through things, and if the person is worth it, I imagine things will be fine.
He has a great job and I work and go to school. Luckily we get to spend a lot of time with each other still.
I'm pretty stoked.
:) :) :)
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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen
LUCKY!!!
I consider myself to be very very lucky.Quote:
Originally Posted by couch-potato
:)
Well, haha you all haven't heard much about my dude and I lately so I'll post here, plus..I'd love to vent haha.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 and a half months and our relationship sucks. I don't know why I'm still with him, I honestly can't figure it out. We break up atleast 3 times a week. It wasn't always like that though, I swear! Maybe I'm holding on to what was once good...the beginning was amazing, he was perfect in my eyes, exactly what I wanted..the "bad boy", lol. He used to fuck me and it was amazing, he'd whisper in my ear and I'd swoon. He'd walk, talk, dance, sing, and I'd drool.
Now, he's madly in love with me, he loves every single thing about me, every flaw, everything. Which wouldn't be a bad thing, if he wasn't obsessive about it. He lives at my house and if he's not here, I'm at his. I never have a free second to myself and if I do it's not for long. He's always up my ass, calling or texting or IMing "I love you" "I love you" "I love you", even my friends are tired of it. He's also an alcoholic. Every fucking day he comes home to me with beer on his breath, the most disgusting smell and taste ever. I stopped drinking because it reminded me of all the times he's come to me, trashed, puking, crying, screaming, angry/sad/too happy, ect. He was abusive for a short period of time, but that stopped quickly once I threatened to leave, now he just fucks with my head when he's mad, threatening to break up with me, like I'd care.. Honestly, in the past two weeks I've thrown his stuff outside 4 times. I used to put it back where it was but now it's sitting in bags near my door, I know we're gonna "break up" again, so why waste my time?
I constantly try to dump him, but he cries or has a fit, if he dumps me he 'takes it back'. I can't figure out how to get the fuck out. I don't even know if I still love him. He's a gangster and I'm not. I like dyed hair and DIY clothes and he hates it. I like ALL music, he just likes rap. I'm way too mature for him, he acts like he's 13. When I'm around him, he makes my skin crawl. I hate kissing him and we haven't had sex in weeks. He disgusts me at times, and other times I just want to strangle him.
I have a great relationship. I've been with my husband 23 years, although we've actually only been married 3. I didn't want to get married,( I wanted an "easy-out" if I needed it) and he was extremely understanding about it. He did not pressure me,although he asked me hundreds of times, and on my 40th birthday we got married. I am truly married to my best friend, and we have a blast together.
We have raised our daughter(she's almost 20 now and married) and we are having fun not having to be "responsible" parents for a change. We are on our second childhood in a sense. Although I had an absolute blast raising my daughter and wouldn't have traded that experience for the world, I am truly enjoying my freedom again!
We have had our moments and our problems(including being separated for a year), but our relationship is stronger and better than ever.
I am truly and madly in love.:s3: Til death do us part!
Hell yeah preach it!Quote:
Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420
I'm just bias because I'm half-Thai lol!
BFA, how many times have people here told you to dump that loser? Just do it and you will feel so much better. He's going to prison anyway so might as well do it now.
Anyway, I am not in a relationship, but in love with someone across the ocean! She was doing an internship for school, but the first day I saw her, I had the hugest crush on her, I thought she was so beautiful. Little did I know, she felt the same way. 2 months passed by, we were so shy to talk to each other, and didn't think we were interested in each other. With a little nudging from a co-worker, 4 days before she went back home, I just kissed her, and everything fell into place, I spent the best 4 days of my life with her. How everything happened, it's so magical.
We talk everyday still, and learning about each other more! It makes me fall in love with her more. I'm visiting her in 4 months, and I simply can't wait to see her!
Even though she's not here, and I miss her, she makes me feel alive and strong. I never been so happy in my life.
It really sounds kinda dumb, but it feels so right!
I'm married and have been for 23 years, almost 24. It's a good and loving relationship, and it's gotten better and easier over the years. I suppose we're accustomed to each other now. We had our ups and downs in the early years but held on. We have one son, and I think it's important for him to see that when the going gets tough, couples can work through their differences without throwing in the towel. We have enough things in common to be compatible but not so much that we bore each other. The heat still exists between us, which is nice. For many couples we know who're at the same stage in life, passion has long since faded.
I haven't been as attentive a wife as I wish I had been in recent weeks, and I feel guilty about that. This has been a strange summer for me. Dave, if you read this, I love you very much. Thank you for putting up with me!
My best friend is also half thai -- really good looking lol - but he just went and joined the navy I miss my boobooQuote:
Originally Posted by thcbongman
Thats wonderful I hope everything goes well with you guys, sounds romantic!Quote:
Originally Posted by thcbongman
me and my bf/partner have been together for 5 yrs now. it is usually good and sometimes hard. we had a bit of trouble the second year but worked it out, and im glad we did. we really love each other and except for when we are really arguing( lol ) we agree that we will probably always be together. we will see how that goes though.hehe. he has wanted to get "married" but i consider what we have as close to that as you can get w/o paper. maybe someday, both when it is legal and we both feel it is right. he wants it on paper and i just want to have a kickass party.
My husband and I are going on 3 years this November. We have a great time together, he is my best friend! We are celebrating our 3rd anniversary this year at Cannabis Cup, we honeymooned there and it was great. We truly love each other, faults and all.
Married 35 years
had one man only
him
Therapy helps:thumbsup:
NICE. I like the way you think!Quote:
Originally Posted by twoguysupnorth
The dude I'm seeing is my tenant's best friend. I never really noticed him before, other than the guy who drives the same car as me and has a big beard, lol. We all went tubing recently, he had shaved his beard, I almost didn't recognize him except by his VW, and we got to talking and discovered that we had a lot in common, and made plans to go fishing soon. So we ended up being fishin' buddies for a while. Just recently, we had plans to play hooky from our respective jobs for the morning and go put the hurtin' on some brookies, and I suggested that he come to dinner the night before- a date, omg! Sure enough, things worked out beautifully that evening and we've been seeing a lot more of each other. It's a very low-pressure, relaxing sort of relationship- no pressure or stressful expectations; we had already been friends, and I am just happy to chill out and see where it takes us. I'm 6 years deep into my career, and he's halfway through college (25 though so not too much of a youngun). There's a lot that will certainly happen but he's a good kid and I know I've got nothign to worry about.
Plus he is a pretty good home brewer.... :D SCORE!!!
I agree wholeheartedly. It does help. They key is working on stuff before it gets out of hand, too. I'm pretty sure Dave and I wouldn't still be married if we hadn't taken advantage of this during the difficult phases. Does wonders for helping couples communicate effectively, too. At least it did for us.Quote:
Originally Posted by silkyblue
I'm sort of a recluse. I live out in the sticks and I'm somewhat disabled. Only 30%, but enough so I can't teach or do much of anything. My back is too unpredictable. Very quiet here. I'll never live in a city again. As far as relationships, I kind of like being single. My wife died last year and maybe someday I'll jump back in, but right now I ain't in no hurry. But shit happens, fast. You just never know.
And my 2 cents BFA, I agree with FBR. Plenty of fish baby.
IM single.. and i feel very lonly at night when i ly in bed alone..
Married, 10 years. Love him dearly. Heat,not really, but that's okay, I have had plenty of heat and heartbreak in my life, esp since he's husband #3. That used to bother me, but my own chemistry is changing and that heady physical experience now matters much less than our continued support of each other. Maybe I'm jaded about "being in love," but sex used to rule me- I was drawn to men for all the wrong reasons (he's so cte!!), and now I feel free of its tyranny. I found a great guy who loves me, a man I love and respect and can laugh with, cook with, and share even the deepest sorrows and still feel hope. I'm pretty lucky:)
me and coco puffs....we go wayy back
lol no im single...and i like it that wayy
Hmmm im enaged to John. He's sleeping beside me right now and snoring obnoxiously loud. He came home from work at 8am. He needs to get up at 3:30 b/c at 4:30 he has to do the NFL fantasy football draft with his friends.
I love him so much. He's off tonight so we'll probably eat and watch some t.v. and then hopefully have some....well sex : ) . We have sex just about every day, we have since we started dating. And it is fantastic. He knows exactly how to turn me on and vice versa. And then after that we'll probably either have sex again or watch some t.v.. And then tommorow he takes me to the doctors for my checkup and so I can get my shot.
I wouldnt trade him for the world.
im single now, sort of
everyones in college except me
:sadcrying
me too its only been two nights, the one night i dont rememer getting back to my bed bc i was so drunk bc i was so sad, and last nite even though i was unbeliveably tired all i could do was cry because i was alone, i need somenoe to sleep next to me, espcially wen im living alone for the first timeQuote:
Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20
now im crying again great
i cnt stop im so depressed
One word describes mine.
OVER. Fucking cheater.
i met a girl in february where i used to go to school....i was there for four days and i met her the first night i was there, i spent the entire weekend with her and it was one of the best times i have ever spent with a girl. we talked over IM and we talked on the phone every day for hours at a time for months and months. then i told her that i was going to move to pittsburgh instead of erie like i had originally planned. she had met some guy from work and was starting to talk to him and that was pretty much the end of us talking. we didnt talk for two months then i went back and i sent her a text telling her to come to the bar and i'd buy her a beer, well she was in florida at the time , but long story short that got the ball rolling again...we're back to our old routine of talking/texting all day long.
i like this girl a lot and she likes me a lot. i hope with all my hear that it works out between us. she's made me realize things about relationships that i had never realized before. she's perfect for me. (she even likes that im a big ol hick)
NO WAY! Stinky that sucks, I'm sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
On the brighter side, atleast you figured out how scummy he was before you got too attached. Thank GOD for guys like ME:D
....Oh, am I moving in too quickly?;)
Yeah. Short and to the point. We met. We hung out. We laughed alot. We had great sex. He cheated. He showed deep loyalty later in another way. I forgave him but I decided to move on.
You're cuter than a snump Chron. :D
good for u ending it girl, some people would stick around for that bullshit thankfully your not! have fun finfing a new guy :thumbsup::pimp::pimp:Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Ugh at my age, finding a new guy is not my idea of 'fun'...
The best part is that I found out about it on my way home from a family member's funeral... yeaaaaah... it's been a week.