Help Me PLEASSSEEEEEEEEE!!!

hello the past couple of weeks have been tuff. my gf broke up with me cause im a bad kid she said. we still hook up and stuff so it still cool. but she yelled at me today becouse i baked at lunch she was like all you do is blaze its kinda annoying. she blazes too. but she was like ive been meaning to tell you that you changed your so diffrent and distent and she was like your a bad kid and i dont wanna be around you if you continue to be like this. i blaze every day all day what should i do. should i choose the girl i love with all my heart or stop smoking bud heems for a little bit?

difficult question, but if she blazes, who the hell is she to say that your a bad kid, if smoking makes you bad, shes just as bad a kid as you are.

My advice would be to keep smoking but clean up your act (if you have a "bad" one) and just talk to her and continue to be friends, if anything was meant to happen it will

never choose one or the other, make them both work:hippy:

i think you should have a nice long conversation with her and figure out why she thinks youve changed so much and stuff.

and if what she says is true and you believe it, then change for the better.

or do what you want, i dunno. depends on the feeling i guess.

It's one thing to smoke,,, it's entirely a different thing if you do it religiously every waking moment... cut back and see if she even likes you,she may think you like pot more than her...

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Originally Posted by Skink

It's one thing to smoke,,, it's entirely a different thing if you do it religiously every waking moment... cut back and see if she even likes you,she may think you like pot more than her...

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i second that.

theres nothing more condescending than your better half liking a plant more than you.

i cut down and just havnt told her about me smoking anymore. i cant tell if she likes me still becouse last night she was like get me a drink and i was like ok im only getting u this drink cause i love you. and she was like do you really i was like yea i still do. and we have been hookin up the whole day. and that night she gave me a handjob and then she fell asleep in my arms but she wouldnt let me do anything to her.

Any advice should i talk to her about it or what idk i love the girl to death and she doesnt know how i feel??:(

I don't think I can help much, the way you describe it, I am confused by her too. If she isn't a complete whore (which I'm thinking she isn't) than the fact she gave you a hand job suggests she still has some feelings for you.

Unless of course she was over and you kept trying to have sex with her. Sometimes when girls don't know what they want at the moment they will give a little in that way, but won't do anything else until they realise what they want. Kind of a way to keep you happy in case she doesn't want to leave, but at the same time holding on to her dignity.

I would take Skinks advice and cut back. You also need to talk to her and cut back on the smoking. You shouldn't have to be stoned every waking hour of the day. Talk to her about it and try and find out if their are any other reasons she is so upset with you right now.

I don't think she's dissing the fact you smoke.

It's the fact you do little afterwards.