What's the deal with the urge to have sex with multiple people...

hi all,

Something has been itching at me lately that I cannot seem to find an answer to.

I want to know why people feel the urge to get fucked, and fuck every living human being that is willing? I mean, I'm flipping through the channels and Maury's show was on. There they had a 16yr old girl who didn't know who her dads father is. She cheated on her BF, also 16, with at least 7 other men. That is fuckin gross!

I have even met some people who get grumpy if they don't have sex for like, a week.

So I need to know, why all the sex? Why do people feel the need to have uncontrollable sex with other people?

I don't get it, I really don't.

My favorite ones are the ones who cheated on their husbands/bf, wait untill the baby is born, wait another few years so they get attached, then tell them. Like what the hell.

It just bugs me for some reason, and it annoys me even more when the young ones say, "I'm too young to be a daddy/mother" well, if you're responsible to be having sex, then instead of thinking how good it feels, think about the risks in the end. Use your head if you choose to have sex., the one on top of your shoulders, not between your legs. ;)

The human urge to pass on DNA. its stronger in some then in others.

Word.

Like, I don't get why people gotta' fuck different people so much.

For me, I'd rather have quality than quantity. Really.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

I want to know why people feel the urge to get fucked, and fuck every living human being that is willing? I mean, I'm flipping through the channels and Maury's show was on. There they had a 16yr old girl who didn't know who her dads father is. She cheated on her BF, also 16, with at least 7 other men. That is fuckin gross! )

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That one is easy... she's got terrible self esteem and feels that if a man has sex with her she is somehow validated. She was probably abused as a child or had a terrible relationship with her own father.

human nature my man we have to breed and at the end of the day we are animals lol take my dog he will fuck anything:)

from what i recall
mostly all the girls that gave it up real easy
never did have any kind if male figure [dad,brother]

i think its different for guys and girls

guys can screw anything
girls need feelings

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

That one is easy... she's got terrible self esteem and feels that if a man has sex with her she is somehow validated. She was probably abused as a child or had a terrible relationship with her own father.

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I agree. Not only did she not know, she said she didn't want to know, or care who the dad was.

People need to start thinking of that child they could be producing, or the child they have produced, instead of thinking of their own needs.

I understand the want to breed, but I'm talking about the people who have sex with 2 different people on the same day. I don't get it. People are abusing sex and using as entertainment, when it should be used when 2 people love each other. It's like it has lost all of it's beautiness behind it. Sex is a special thing that creates a wonderful being, and should be done when 2 people share that special bond. Not when you've had too many drinks and you're horny all of a sudden.

I don't know, maybe I'm an old fashioned person who still thinks sex is a beautiful thing. People don't see it that way anymore.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

Not when you've had too many drinks and you're horny all of a sudden..

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Fine example of why it's best to drink only with people you care deeply about already! :D

My opinion on sex is that is it a special thing. It is something that takes place when two people are in love; that's all it is. An expression of deep love. I would not fuck anyone unless I really thought we had something special. Sex is a beautiful thing that should not be given out like business cards.

Unless I was stoned or drunk, of course.

Because sex is fun