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when yu had to confess to yur parents about yur smoking habbits..how did they take it?
i think i mite have to go wit this routine pretty damn soon..i've been puttin myself in a dark hole lately..
i jus wanna get some advice on how to let em kno if i ever get to that point
my mam walked in on me when i was rolling spliffs for my sister and she totaly flipped then my sister came in and said it was her blow and she flipped more! then she bitched for a few days then she had a spliff with us lol
lol me i got caught as well, lt them catch you
its easier
I got caught twice. I think if i get caught again she learn to live with. My grades are good im athletic somewhat, so I think she'll come around.. 3rd times a charm!
Just tell them, it makes life way easier. Back when I did, she was suprised and alittle disapointed. But everyone else in my family does too, so it wasnt too bad for me.
My dad found out the other week, actually. I was reading the newspaper, and came across something that cost $4.20. I said 'Heheh... 420..." in front of him, and he's like 'Your mom might be oblivious, but I'm not that stupid' and just left it at that, lol.
Today he was making jokes about me, like I had a headache, and he said "Why don't you go smoke a bowl over in the woods for your headache?" He's very jokey which makes me suspicious that he used to smoke... That'd be pretty neat. And he knows it's not affecting my grades or thinking, he understands my health problems are neurological.
And he's not serious about it. Which makes it odd, I'd think he would have been angrier, but no. Neither approves or disapproves, just noticed it :P
Although I have been smoking on some occasions in the past, I decided to tell my parents about my chronice use once I started to use it regulary. I figured they will find out one way or another, so I decided to put faith in my own hands and just go ahead and tell them.
Now, before I continue, the fact that I'm 18, and an exellent student must be kept in mind. I decided to tell them the day midtearm report cards came. With an 88% average I couldn't go wrong. Also, my brother, who is older than me, has been a vocal chronic user and my parents did not care about that at all. Anyway, when I did tell them, their response was that I'm 18 and that they couldn't stop me from doing it even if they wanted to (very true), and that I should just use it resposibly.
So basically what I'm trying to say is that certain prerequisites are required, if yor parents are the "caring" type. You should be decent at school minimum, and you have to be relatively well behaved. Because if you are not, chances are they will start blaming poor 'ol Mary Jane for yer problems, and start hating you for it.
(I cant think of a way to word this sentence to make it sound proper) It was actually my mom that gave me my first weed. (told you) anyway, now she always makes jokes and stuff.
I have been smoking since I was 16, I'm now 20 and my parents didn't know i smoked until 12th grade, when they found my bowl and some Canadian beasters lol in my jacket, my mom smelled it through my coat when it was hanging in the closet! lol they got mad at first, but they gave me my shit back! and my dad told told me he used to smoke and they ended up not really caring to much about it
It was wayyy obvious I smoked when for weeks on end I'd bake out my room when my father went to sleep. I'd just say it was incense, or the few times he was direct about it I lied. He was in denial.
Both my brothers are stoners, my father himself was a stoner, my interests were of stoner-kind and I displayed an incredible amount of drug knoledge, and other times acted completely naive.
So one night we're chilling, looking at some wiki article and a few links and we're looking at marijuana and of course I play it like a complete naive spoon-fed prohibitionist...
The next day I'm babbling and just blurt it out.
He knows he can't stop me, blah blah,
and I won't be a lazy stoner when I'm 18 he'll kick me out,
but if I do want to smoke it I have to do it outside.
Now I just don't mention it, he doesn't mention it,
and his fiance was pretty cool about it.