Kinda like Darkhorse's thread....

OK SO IVE BEEN GOIN OUT WITH MY GIRLFRIEND 4 4MONTHS.SHES A VIRGIN. IM NOT.WE BOTH WANNA HAV SEX N WERE BOTH IN LOVE. WEVE TALKED ABOUT DOING IT N STUFF BUT EVERYTIME SHE GOES DOWN ON ME I TRY TO TAKE HER TO MY ROOM N GET 2 IT....BUT SHE DOESNT WANT TO:(...SO THIS THREAD IS JUST LIKE DARKHORSES BUT THE ONLY DIFFERNCE IS A) SHES GONE DOWN ON ME. B)WEVE TALKED ABOUT IT. C) IM NOT A VIRGIN......THE PROBLEM I HAVE NO EXPERINCE IN MEANINGFUL SEX(AS IN EVERY GIRL I FUCKED WAS AN EASY WHORE)AND I WANT TO MAKE THIS TIME I HAVE SEX MEANINGFUL...CUZ ITS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND...ANY ADVICE?

Easy. Wait. She knows you want to. She's obviously not there yet. When she's ready, she will tell you. You wouldn't want her to regret it would you?
AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO YELL PLEASE

no like shes told me she wants to.....

well like wait until she like wants to have like sex then.


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Originally Posted by CUPNOODLES

no like shes told me she wants to.....

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Okay... so in theory, she would like to at some point have sex.
So why are you pushing it so hard? You're in, man... at some point... piss her off now, make her feel pressured or uncomfortable, she jets, you got nothin'.

Geez how did kids ever figure out how to get laid before the internet?

Just because she says that doesn't mean she's not going to be apprehensive. If you love her like you claimed you do waiting shouldn't be that much of a problem?!
It could be worth the wait :p

Ok, she wants to. That doesn't mean she's ready.

If she's going down on you, that's a bad time to try to have sex with her. She's already doing what she is comfortable with.

Have *you* gone down on her. Maybe you should try it. She might be more recepitive. But then again, she might not be ready for intercourse.

Stop asking her, or trying to lead her away. When you go down on her, make it comfortable. Set her up on the sofa (she's obviously not comfortable going back to your room) with lots of pillows, soft light, great music, and start strokin the kitty. Be gentle. Take your time, and 'listen' to her body. You'll know when she likes something, rememeber it, do it more, and she'll melt in your mouth. ;)

It sounds like shes not ready. She cant speed that up so you're just going to have to keep on waiting. Keep in mind that she may just be saying she wants to have sex because she loves you and doesnt want to lose you, not because she really feels ready to sleep with you

hmmm then shuld i cheat on her cuz ive been on a 9 month dry spell here n it looks like my dicks gonna run away cuz im neglecting itz needs.....

Be a man.

The difference between a boy and a man is a man under any condition never begs for sex.

Go have sex with another girl, but be considerate of your girlfriend's feelings.

It sure doesn't sound like you love her at all. You are just horny :p