I'm very worried and in need of serious advice

I've not confided in you lot before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs. The phone rings, but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says,
"Just some friends from work. You don't know them."

I sometimes stay awake to look out for her cab coming home, but she always comes walking up the drive as I hear the sound of a car leaving around the corner, as if she has gotten out and walked the rest of the way.

Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi at all?

I once picked up her mobile phone, just to see what time it was. This caused her to go completely berserk. She quickly
snatched the phone out of my hand and cursed me hysterically, screaming that I should never touch her personal property. She then accused me of trying to spy on her.

Anyway, I have never broached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

I decided I was going to park my car next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the street around the corner when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my motor that I
noticed a small amount of oil leaking through the gasket underneath the cylinder head.

So is this something I can easily repair myself or
do you think I should take it to the dealer?

If you have a decent mechanical ability you should be able to do it....the difficulty differs from car to car year to year. That was funny

haha.

Underneath the cylinder head? As in the head gasket or the valve cover gasket?
Type of engine? Any head gasket leaks/issues? While you are in there might as well do the timing chain/belt and send the head off to get redone.

You could probably tackle it yourself...get a good manual and some patience.

have your wife fix it!

haha, I know nothing about cars, but do you really think your wife is cheating on you, or is that just a made up funny way to ask a real question?

ha,ha,fucking class mate:D :jointsmile:

that was really misleading. lol

maybe a fine bit off fine tuning that might solve the problem. the wife & the car. then take them both out for a drive.
p.s you know how to tell a story.lol

have yr wifes b/f fix it:D

ive seen that posted before.. but its still pretty funny