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well yer im 15 and my gf is pregnant.
im nt 2 sure how it happend probz a broken condom or sumfink but basically yer im 15 n ma 14 yr old gf is having a baby what shud i do?
plz can this remain in this section, no mention of it outside this section as i dnt want ppl that dnt post hear nt to know bout ma personal life, ty.
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Originally Posted by lil josh
1. adoption (probably best choice)
2. raise the kid, and take it like a man
3. abortion
have you talked to her about an abortion?
abortion is the way to go man, the world already has enough teen moms, and just people in general.
plus, you can make some money off of the fetus by selling it on ebay or to scientists performing stem cell research or selling it to a chinese restaurant.
dude.. you're not good at this kinda advice are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
I agree with orange floyd, let it go for adoption. Im sorry but you really are stupid, i mean 15?! and shes only 14? christ.. she was 12 two years ago.. 12!
but yeah letting someone who wants a baby take care of it is alot better then killing the poor guy. Hey its not the babys fault she got pregnant is it?
dude plz dnt make jokes about my baby to be......Quote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
this is a serious subject, all my m8s have told me to push her down the stairs or kick her in the stomach or to ''accidently'' push her in front of oncoming traffic and i really dnt find it funny
I have a mate and his dad did that to his mum when she was pregnant with him. Seroiusly, dont do shit like that, adoption dude. You're not KILLING a baby and you're not giving up you're childhood (since your still considered a child.. i mean 15 and 14? JESUS CHRIST) but instead of taking away someones LIFE you'd be giving the child a loving home and the CHANCE to live.Quote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
Imagine if you found out u was an accident and one of you're parents wanted to abort you? imagine it.
Brenda's got a baby, but Brenda's barely got a brain.
Sorry...some Tupac felt right.
okay okay, i was kind of joking about selling it (but you could if you wanted to)Quote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
i am serious about abortion though, its technically not alive until the third trimester, until then it is on par with a tumor.
What should you do? Follow your heart man, do your very best. Communicate. Think. Do you think she'll have the baby?
You want advice lil josh, go talk to your gf. Asking a bunch of pot heads what to do means jack shit and jack left town. In the end it is her body and she is going to have the final say. I suggest BEING there for her and talking with her and seeing what SHE wants to do instead of selfishly thinking of what YOU should do.
I have a 4yrs daughter and it was hardly planned (from a one night stand)... Yeah being a dad is a big responsibility but it can also be the BEST thing that ever happened to you whether you think so or not right now.
Good luck man and try not to worry so much... A baby is better then getting HIV ;)