possessive chicks

Okay so there's this chick, right? She's so hot!!! Like, goddayoum, as bob banana would say!!!!! lol and i get on with her really well, but nothings happened between us yet, just takin' it easy, ya know?

so anyway, whenever i see her we talk for hours, and i always think damn i really fuckin like her, but, like, shes mental lol

ok, well not mental, shes just really fuckin possessive.. i mean, we're not even gong out, we're just mates at the moment.. so why the fuck does she get all upset if i dont phone her one day, or if im goin out somewhere and i dont invite her, shell lay the whole guilt trip thing on me.. and, like, if ever i talk to another girl, shell like get all jealous and interrupt.. i mean, she doesnt do it blatantly but its obvious to people that know her..

anyway, the problem is i really like her.. shes funny as hell, really fuckin hot, shes a stoner, and i get on wit her soooooo well, and ya she likes me too.. but, i dunno what to do, coz like i said, we're not even goin out andshes already bein really possessive and annoying.. dont wanna sound harsh, but i hate chicks like that.. so, advice, people, advice! :P

GHoST:

She has, either A) been in a family where one or other of the parents has cheated on the other - or both, or B) been cheated on herself.

You should either A) talk to her about any issues she has, and express to her that her possessiveness is causing you to be turned off, or B) don't get involved with her.

Maybe that is too simplistic, but I hope it gives you some direction. :)

Ghost, I think the only thing to do here is weigh your options. If she's hot, cool, funny, and a stoner maybe you could put up with her possessiveness. But if you think her being possessive is just too much for you to handle, then maybe you should just stay friends.

Btw, by taking your relationship further you may be able to calm her fears and she'll let up on you a little bit. Or she'll turn into a complete psychopath, either way, it's a wait and see kind of thing. :)

It also depends on how horny you are.

lol thanks guys.. you're probs right.. anyway, i like her too much to just tell her to back the fuck off coz shes freaking me out lol.. guess ill have to wait and see :p

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Originally Posted by maryjanemama

It also depends on how horny you are

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lol you know whats funny? like, wit this chick it aint even about that.. crazy huh? :o

In all things, GHoST, communication is the only way forward...you should talk to her, I think..at least then, you'll both know where you stand :)
It's fairer on you, and on her too...there's nothing worse that not knowing that your actions are detrimental to your life...better to know and address them, than think that everything is fine, then BAMM...dumped!..why?

Ya know what I mean? ;)

yea i get what you mean, Res... the thing is, wit this chick (her names lara, btw), like, we get so well together coz we can b really open with eachother, u know? like we spend hours and hours chatting, and most of the time end up ignoring everyone else all night lol, so like, ya, maybe ill talk to her.. or maybe ill just have another joint :)

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Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR

maybe ill talk to her.. or maybe ill just have another joint :)

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lol..do both, dude

Anyways, good luck with it.
My ex-wife was possessive of me, and was a major factor of our split up (apart from the fact that she shagged my best mate, and was a complete bitch from hell, and we had very little in common, and that she bored me silly because she didn't have a brain, and that she forced me to watch Coronation Street, and Eastenders, and kept hitting me, and swearing at me, and dissing me in front of my family, and friends, and didn't have one iota of respect for me).....:rolleyes:

lol

Res, I don't like your ex, either. I always wonder how women like that get guys in the first place. :confused:


















Oh, yeah, big boobs. I forgot about the power of big boobs. :D

lol, MJM, that would have been a bonus :rolleyes:

Yeah, I wondered how I ended up with her, maybe I was pissed up, or summat lol (or desperate lol)

Nah, it wasn't all bad....there was this one day......:D

thanks mjm and Res.. and res, sorry to hear about your psycho bint of an ex-wife.. no amount of tits and ass and hot sweaty nekkedness would make me get with someone like that


well, maybe