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what do you guys think....how should i do it...its for another chick........ ok this is the situation
been together 4 years i love her, but this other chick just makes me feel differnt....my girl now doesnt know ive ever done ANYTHING bad lol....drink, smoke, pills, ANYTHING and i do the first one evry weeked middle one daily and last one pretty often too.....but anyway...how should i do it...ive done it 3 times before and crushed her everytime..i dont wanna hurt her....what do you guys think
ooh thats tough, if it was me, i'd stay loyal to the girl.
im a sucker for sparing people's feelings..
i hope she takes it well.
as for advice, im not sure. will she take it hard? she doesnt accept you turning to substances then. weigh it out you'll figure it out.
i don't understand when people do this. doesn't this new girl realize that she could be in the shoes of your current girlfriend at some point? i mean i guess i understand the whole ladder theory that most guys go by this day in age, but you either love her or you don't. there is no easy way to do it, especially after 4 years.
just do the standard you need time apart to find yourself bullshit excuse. they can never argue with that & they want you to find yourself too. do that & hook up with the other girl. just make sure the first doesnt find out about the second for at least 3 months.
I'm gonna make a prediction...
when you break up with her.. your life will take a turn to hard core drugs, and deep introspection after you get down down down into the dumps..
meanwhile your ex will go off to college and get staright A's and shagged by an entire fraternity...
You two will reunite in 4 years.. you will tell her that you found GOD but that you are just really really spiritual.. and she'll think your crazy.. but you two will still get in one last shagging.... I recommend you spend a lot of time eating at the Y.. so that her final memories of you are positive..
to be cont.
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the way i did it with my girl of almost a year, who we were both attached to... and both loved each other alot...i just told her "i want to take a break, so that i can think about were my life is going, and why im fucking it over so bad, how i need to fix it, and i cant do that with a girl on my mind all the time, and say its just tempary... and then when you ask the other girl out, and if the girl your with finds out, just tell her that your experimenting but you still love her..." thats the exact way i did it... and my ex still hasnt killed her self... but she is still crying so it sort of sucks, and sort of hurts my heart....
Sounds like you don't need to be dating. Just live the swinger type of lifestyle for a bit.
If you break up with this girl for another girl, what there's to say the same situation won't come up again.
4 years and she doesn't know you. sweetQuote:
Originally Posted by s2headhunter
man fuck all that lying shit what you should do is tell her you smoke drink and pop pills and she will probly break up wit you and if she doesint then she'll just have to accept it you can't lose
Strait up!!! be a man... She has to get through the pain to realize you are a jerk... don't string her along and mess up more valuable time,,,time that she needs to find herself and someone who loves her...