Printable View
Look im realy worried, i just told a friend i smoke over MSN, i dont know his stance on weed and he bailed out after i said i did, i dunno if hes gonna tell anyone or what.... he lives a 3 hour drive away from me so not realy any worries with him comin over...
HELP
Be yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by mini pothead
That is the single greatest piece of advice:thumbsup: but i mean... in regards to trying to keep the friendship together... 'cos this guy is pretty cool and ide hate to lose a friend over some stupid argument 'cos he has the wrong idea
Something like this shouldn't end a friendship and if it does.. well, you have to ask yourself if it really makes that much of a difference on your life. My best friend of 13 years dropped me like a dirty diaper, for reasons.. that still baffle me. I was pretty taken back by it.. as we grew up together and nothing really "caused" the end of the friendship.Quote:
Originally Posted by mini pothead
"Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in the geography of lifestyles because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young."
If he can't accept what you've told him, than perhaps it's time to part ways as active friends.
Cheers,
Bob.
If he ditches you for that, hes not really a friend.
One of my friends stopped hangin' out with me cause I smoked weed. Blamed it entirely on me, "we were great friends untill you started smoking pot!" etc. And a year later the kid is a stoner...
Fuck him though, his loss.
My friends who don't smoke are against pot, know I smoke, but are coolw ith it because I was able to provide a counter-argument as to why I do it. Just make an effort to explain why you do it, and then try to work it out.
And yeah, like the people above me said, if he ditches you for that, he's not really a friend.
if he'll listen, and if you have the patience, explain to him how harmless it is, then if he's willing, get him to try it a few times, and see what his viewpoint is. anyway, if he bails, then fuck him! assholes like that are a dime a dozen.
lmao just say fuck it and not care, its his problem. i tell all my friends i smoke they really dont give a damn.
All my friends smoke so I don't have this problem.
Who are you worried about him telling?