More Sex = Stronger Bond

well ive been keeping this a secret for a while. But now that i have even more knowledge i can let u people in on this gem. Apparently, a certain chemical that produces monogamous behaviour is released into the brain when u screw. Yes, this means the chances of your relationship maintaining stability is directly related to the amount of good sex u have. So fck it up people! Heres a study.

In this world of chemical signals, humans are not scientifically considered monogamous; we do not fall under the 3% of the species that are monogamous. The species that stick to one mate usually have a rich flow of another chemical called vasopressin, the monogamy chemical. Experiments done with males injected with this chemical brought out all the evidence needed. Isolating males before and after mating showed that before mating, he was indifferent to all females. But 24 hours after mating, he is hooked for life. The jealous husband syndrome sets in too.

Another interesting chemical is oxytoxin, the `cuddling â??chemical. It promotes the need to be physically held, have close contact with he mate and makes both the sexes more caring. It can be released simply by a loverâ??s look, smell or even a fantasy.

So much for the chemistry of infatuation. When infatuation subsides, another chemical takes over, which is responsible for intimate relationships. These chemicals are created by endorphins. They make a relationship steadier, intimate, dependable, warm and a great sharing experience. They do not induce a giddy high, but calmness and stabilityâ?¦hence are the reason why people stay married. The longer they are married, the longer two people stay together, because this chemical is addictive. It is endorphins that trigger grief on a spouseâ??s death or long separation, those yearnings for togetherness. The two types of attachments can be summed up as followsâ?¦adrenaline love is being in love with the idea of being in love. While endorphins, we like loving someone.

http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/3-27-2004-52238.asp

I love you...hehehe

I believe it

I notice me and him fight more when we take "breaks"

but when we go through our sexcapades we are always much closer

and we both kinda act clingy

man I need to get laid

i agree as long as you're not having sex to avoid talking about problems in the relationship, sometimes girls especially, will use their sexuality to get out of things, or to cover up that they dont really have a personality

WOW... nice EUPHORIC..

hey MARYJANESCOTT.. wanna bond??